

#25
Mentioned in 248 episodes
Never Split the Difference
Negotiating As If Your Life Depended On It
Book • 2016
This book, written by former FBI hostage negotiator Chris Voss and co-author Tahl Raz, provides a masterclass in influencing others through negotiation.
It distills the Voss method, revealing skills such as establishing rapport, creating trust with tactical empathy, and transforming conflict into collaboration.
The book is filled with real-life examples from Voss's career, illustrating how these techniques can be applied in both professional and personal life to achieve goals and defuse potential crises.
It distills the Voss method, revealing skills such as establishing rapport, creating trust with tactical empathy, and transforming conflict into collaboration.
The book is filled with real-life examples from Voss's career, illustrating how these techniques can be applied in both professional and personal life to achieve goals and defuse potential crises.
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Mentioned in 248 episodes
Mentioned by 

as the author of the book.


Andrew Huberman

4,184 snips
Chris Voss: How to Succeed at Hard Conversations
Mentioned by 

who references the book's teaching on putting yourself in the other person's shoes in negotation


Sam Parr

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Robert Greene: How to use the 48 Laws of Power to get what you want in business
Mentioned by 

as a book he worked with the author on.

Noah Kagan

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Recommended by 

for learning negotiation techniques.


Bob Moesta

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Mentioned by 

in the introduction as the author of the book.


Lex Fridman

1,419 snips
#364 – Chris Voss: FBI Hostage Negotiator
Mentioned by Speaker 4 as an example of someone who practices and prepares for high-pressure situations.

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Mentioned by 

as the book that introduced him to 

.


Shane Parrish


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655 snips
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Mentioned by 

as 

's book on negotiation strategies.


David Marchese


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552 snips
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Mentioned by 

when introducing 

as the co-author.


Matt Abrahams


Chris Voss

541 snips
228. Negotiate Your Way to Success: Empathy, Mirroring, and Labeling
Mentioned by 

as a book that changed his approach to communication.


Jay Shetty

539 snips
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Mentioned by 

as an excerpt from his book, highlighting his experiences as an FBI hostage negotiator.


Jocko Willink

419 snips
354: Everything in Life Is A Negotiation. With Chris Voss.
Mentioned by 

as a book that changed his approach to communication.


Jay Shetty

389 snips
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Mentioned by 

for its impact on his communication approach.


Jay Shetty

341 snips
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Recommended by 

as a book that will immediately make you a better communicator, especially in negotiations.


Jefferson Fisher

328 snips
Chris Voss: FBI-Backed Tactics for Better Communication
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in relation to 'How to Talk So Kids Will Listen...', illustrating similar communication principles used in high-stakes negotiations.

Tal Raviv

320 snips
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Mentioned by 

as a book he's been listening to on Audible.


Jay Shetty

290 snips
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Mentioned by 

as a book that changed his approach to communication.


Jay Shetty

257 snips
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Mentioned by 

when discussing challenging conversations and negotiation techniques.


Lewis Howes

255 snips
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Mentioned by 

and 

during a discussion on negotiation strategies.


Ed Mylett


Benjamin Hardy

250 snips
How To 10X Your Life w/ Dr. Benjamin Hardy
Mentioned by 

, referencing Chris Voss's book on negotiating in the FBI.


Adam Grant

248 snips
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