On Purpose with Jay Shetty

Chris Voss: #1 Secret Formula FBI Negotiators Use To Always Get What They Want & 4 Ways to Apply These Tactics to Your Life

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Aug 26, 2024
Chris Voss, a former FBI lead international kidnapping negotiator and author of "Never Split the Difference," shares his journey from SWAT to negotiation expert. He reveals how to reframe negotiations as collaborative efforts rather than confrontations, emphasizing empathy and emotional intelligence. Voss discusses strategies to navigate high-pressure situations and offers insights on gender dynamics in negotiation. He underscores the importance of self-care, recognizing small wins, and effective communication in both personal and professional relationships.
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ADVICE

Calming a Crisis

  • Use a calm and soothing voice, especially in crisis situations.
  • Label the emotions you hear from the other person to de-escalate negativity.
INSIGHT

Negativity Bias

  • Humans are naturally driven by negative thoughts due to a survival mechanism.
  • Negativity bias affects our decision-making, especially in negotiations.
ANECDOTE

Hotline Story

  • Chris Voss shares a story about a frantic caller on a suicide hotline.
  • By labeling the caller's emotions, Voss helped him calm down and find strength.
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