In this podcast, host Ed Mylett interviews Dr. Benjamin Hardy, an organizational psychologist and best-selling author. They discuss how to 10X your life by mastering your past, using framing techniques, harnessing adaptability, setting impossible goals, finding your true motivation, navigating relationships, scheduling deep flow, and selling identity rather than just a product.
Setting 10x goals leads to greater success by prompting honest evaluation and prioritization of actions.
Mastering the past and framing events through a transformative lens shapes the present and future.
Having a powerful 'why' that aligns with personal aspirations is crucial for finding purpose and motivation.
Deep dives
The Power of 10x Goals
In this podcast episode, the guest discusses the power of setting 10x goals. He explains that setting a goal that seems impossible actually makes it easier to achieve, as it forces individuals to ask hard questions and focus on the few things that truly have big upside. He emphasizes that big goals lead to more honest evaluation and prioritization of actions, ultimately driving greater success.
Mastering the Past and Present
The podcast explores the concept of framing and mastering the past, present, and future. It highlights the importance of recognizing that the present shapes the meaning of the past, and individuals have the power to define their past in a way that serves their present and future. The guest emphasizes the role of psychological flexibility and the ability to view the past from different perspectives. It also discusses the significance of having a compelling future and using it to guide decisions and actions in the present.
The Role of Identity and Calling
The episode delves into the importance of identity and having a calling. It emphasizes that believing in one's own capacity and autonomy is vital for motivation. The guest encourages individuals to be honest with themselves about their true desires and goals, even if they seem impossible. It highlights the connection between calling, authentic self-expression, and finding purpose, underscoring the significance of having a powerful 'why' that aligns with personal aspirations.
Reverse Engineering Impossible Goals
The podcast explores the concept of reverse engineering goals, emphasizing the power of setting impossible goals and working backwards to determine the steps needed to achieve them. It highlights the significance of audacious goals that force individuals to think differently and take actions they wouldn't consider with smaller goals. The guest shares a real-life example of how a person achieved significant success by setting and reverse engineering impossible goals, demonstrating the transformative impact of this approach.
The Power of Being Honest with Yourself and Owning Your Why
One of the key insights from the podcast is the importance of being honest with yourself about your true motivations and goals. The speaker emphasizes that if you're not clear about the real reason behind your actions, you won't have the necessary drive and motivation to succeed. They highlight that a calling doesn't have to be a lifelong commitment, but can evolve and change over time. The speaker encourages listeners to be honest about what they truly want, even if it may not seem profound or acceptable to others. They assert that progress starts by telling the truth and that being honest with yourself is essential for discovering and pursuing your calling.
Becoming a Buyer rather than a Seller in Life and Business
The podcast episode also explores the concept of being a buyer or a seller in various aspects of life. Being a buyer means knowing what you want and being willing to walk away if you don't get it, which gives you power and influence. On the other hand, being a seller reflects a sense of desperation and a lack of minimum standards. The podcast emphasizes that adopting a buyer mentality is crucial for success, whether it's in negotiations, relationships, or business endeavors. By positioning yourself as the buyer, you maintain control, set higher standards, and attract opportunities and people who align with your values and goals. It is highlighted that most people function as sellers too often, and that adopting a buyer mindset can lead to better outcomes and a greater sense of self-worth.
10X your TIME. 10X your MONEY. 10X your RELATIONSHIPS. 10X your PURPOSE!!!
If you're seeing this, odds are you are dedicated to GROWTH in all areas of your life… and on this week's episode, we're going to kick up the intensity and deliver mind-bending strategies on how to 10X your life and grow EXPONENTIALLY with my brilliant friend, DR. BENJAMIN HARDY.
Dr. Benjamin Hardy is an ORGANIZATIONAL PSYCHOLOGIST and BEST-SELLING AUTHOR and is sharing his REVOLUTIONARY methods on how to 10X your TIME, 10X your MONEY, 10X your RELATIONSHIPS and 10X your PURPOSE including:
How Mastering your PAST can shape your legacy.
The art of FRAMING: Viewing events and people through a transformative lens.
How to harness your superpower of adaptability.
Turning every stumble into a stepping stone.
Crafting a compelling future with REVERSE ENGINEERING.
The magic behind setting seemingly IMPOSSIBLE GOALS.
Digging deep into the SELF-DETERMINATION THEORY.
Deciphering your genuine WHY.
How to master time
Operating to a 10X level is fundamentally about QUALITY VS. QUANTITY because the quality of your freedoms determines the results you achieve.
Listen closely this week as Dr. Hardy gives you the EXPONENTIAL EQUATIONS you need to 10X every area of your life.
