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Mentioned in 45 episodes

The state of affairs

Rethinking Infidelity

Book • 2017

In this book, Esther Perel delves into the complex and often misunderstood topic of infidelity.

She weaves real-life case stories with psychological and cultural analysis to understand why people cheat, even in happy marriages.

Perel argues that affairs can provide a unique window into modern relationships, revealing our expectations, desires, and cultural attitudes about love, lust, and commitment.

The book offers practical advice on how couples can heal from infidelity and potentially grow and learn from these tumultuous experiences.

Mentioned by

Andrew Huberman

Steven Bartlett

Rangan Chatterjee

Mentioned in 45 episodes

Mentioned by

Andrew Huberman

as one of the world's foremost experts on romantic relationships and author of bestselling books.

How to Find, Build & Maintain Healthy Romantic Relationships | Esther Perel

Mentioned by

Esther Perel

as a book about infidelity offering a nuanced perspective.

The Sex Expert (Esther Perel): The Relationship Crisis No One Talks About That's Killing Your Sex Life!

Mentioned by

Steven Bartlett

as one of

Esther Perel

's best-selling books, focusing on infidelity.

Esther Perel (Love & Sex Expert): Why Men Love Porn More Than Their Partner! It's Time To Enjoy Sex Again! The Real Reason Men & Women Cheat!

Mentioned by

Jay Shetty

as a New York Times bestselling author whose books are global phenomena.

Esther Perel: The #1 Secret to Know if Your Chemistry Will Last & Why You’re Addicted to Your Ex

Mentioned by

Dan Harris

as best-selling books by

Esther Perel

.

Non-Negotiables in the New Year | From Ten Percent Happier with Dan Harris

Mentioned by

Esther Perel

as a book she wrote about infidelity, based on 10 years of meeting couples.

Mentioned by

Rangan Chatterjee

as New York Times bestsellers written by

Esther Perel

.

Esther Perel: How to Feel More Connected, Respected And Valued At Work & Home #557

Mentioned by the podcast host as the author of several books on relationships.

Ms. Entitlement and Mr. Sacrifice Out on a Date

Mentioned by

Lewis Howes

as one of

Esther Perel

's books, exploring infidelity and relationships.

Red Flags To Avoid In Relationships & How To Find Real Love w/ Esther Perel EP 1277

Mentioned by

Dan Harris

as best-selling books by

Esther Perel

.

Esther Perel on the One Thing That Will Improve the Quality of Your Life

Mentioned by

Brené Brown

as one of

Esther Perel

's bestselling books.

Esther Perel on New AI - Artificial Intimacy

Mentioned by

Peter Attia

as the author of "The State of Affairs" and "Mating in Captivity", highlighting her expertise in relationships.

#172 - Esther Perel: The effects of trauma, the role of narratives in shaping our worldview, and why we need to accept uncomfortable emotions

Mentioned by

Tim Ferriss

as her new book, exploring infidelity.

#463: Esther Perel — The Relationship Episode: Sex, Love, Polyamory, Marriage, and More (Repost)

Mentioned by the podcast host as the author of several books on relationships.

I Want to Feel Wanted

Mentioned by

Esther Perel

as one of her books exploring the complexities of relationships and eroticism.

Sex? After Kids? Tell Me More, Esther Perel

Mentioned by

Matthew Hussey

as a New York Times bestselling author whose books have profoundly impacted our understanding of modern relationships.

265: Esther Perel’s Advice On Modern Dating, Sexuality, And Communicating In Relationships

Mentioned by

Esther Perel

at the end of the podcast as her authored books.

The Arc of Love - Happily Divorced

Mentioned by

Tristan Harris

as the author of the books, highlighting her expertise in relationships and intimacy.

Esther Perel on Artificial Intimacy (rerun)

Mentioned by

Tony Robbins

as her newest book, exploring infidelity in the modern world.

Esther Perel Reveals the Secret to Lasting Love & Passion

Mentioned by the podcast host as the author of several books on relationships.

I Took My Boss to Therapy

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