The Diary Of A CEO with Steven Bartlett Esther Perel (Love & Sex Expert): Why Men Love Porn More Than Their Partner! It's Time To Enjoy Sex Again! The Real Reason Men & Women Cheat!
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Dec 7, 2023 
Esther Perel, a renowned psychotherapist and relationship expert, dives deep into the complexities of love and intimacy. She discusses why men might turn to pornography and the emotional vulnerabilities behind infidelity, even in seemingly happy relationships. The conversation explores the influence of childhood experiences on adult connections and the necessity of nurturing partnerships. Perel also addresses the paradoxes of security versus freedom in love and the importance of open communication in reigniting passion between partners.
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Relationships' Importance
- The quality of life is determined by the quality of relationships.
- Relationships are essential for our existence, defining who we are through interactions with others.
Childhood Impact
- Childhood experiences shape our needs for security and adventure.
- We're not solely defined by our past; we constantly evolve and rewrite our stories.
The Pursuer-Distancer Dynamic
- Esther Perel discusses a pattern in couples where one partner's absence triggers the other's feelings of abandonment.
- This dynamic creates a cycle where one withdraws and the other pursues, highlighting how partners' actions evoke survival strategies.
