Good Inside with Dr. Becky Sex? After Kids? Tell Me More, Esther Perel
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Feb 7, 2023 
Esther Perel, a renowned couples therapist and author, dives into the complexities of intimacy after kids. She discusses how parenting dynamics often overshadow erotic energy in relationships, urging couples to prioritize their connections. The conversation highlights the balance between nurturing children and sustaining adult partnerships, advocating for open communication. Perel also addresses societal pressures on modern parenting and the importance of maintaining romantic intimacy amidst the chaos, offering insights for rekindling desire.
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Partnership and Family
- The state of a family system and a child's behavior are often linked to the parents' partnership.
- Prioritizing the couple's happiness is crucial for family survival, especially in modern times where divorce is more accepted.
Conflicting Demands of Modern Parenting
- Modern parenting involves high expectations for both romantic partnerships and child-rearing.
- This creates competing demands on resources such as time, money, attention, and intimacy.
Prioritizing Your Relationship
- Assess the importance of your relationship and demonstrate it through actions, similar to caring for children.
- Plan regular dates, express affection, and engage in shared activities beyond parenting.
