Good Inside with Dr. Becky

Sex? After Kids? Tell Me More, Esther Perel

Feb 7, 2023

Esther Perel, a renowned couples therapist and author, dives into the complexities of intimacy after kids. She discusses how parenting dynamics often overshadow erotic energy in relationships, urging couples to prioritize their connections. The conversation highlights the balance between nurturing children and sustaining adult partnerships, advocating for open communication. Perel also addresses societal pressures on modern parenting and the importance of maintaining romantic intimacy amidst the chaos, offering insights for rekindling desire.

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The role distribution in parenting - understanding the frontline parent

01:20

Parenting Different Children Requires Leading with Different Parts of Yourself

00:54

Couple Happiness

00:40

Intro

4min

Navigating Parenthood and Partnership

11min

Navigating the Overwhelm of Modern Parenting Norms

2min

Navigating Parenting and Partnership

14min

Navigating Difficult Conversations in Relationships

4min

What happens when two become three, or four, or five? Who is responsible for the needs and wants of a couple when days are filled with playdates, pick-ups, and meal preps? Nights lack the erotic energy that couples need not only to survive but to thrive. This week, Dr. Becky consults with the renowned couples therapist, Esther Perel, to talk about what parents can do to rekindle their desires.

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To listen to Dr. Becky's TED Talk on repair visit https://www.ted.com/talks/becky_kennedy_the_single_most_important_parenting_strategy

For more Esther Perel, head to estherperel.com or listen to her podcast Where Should We Begin. Stories are the building blocks of relationships and Esther Perel designed a game to bring out the storyteller in you. Get yours at https://game.estherperel.com

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