The School of Greatness

Red Flags To Avoid In Relationships & How To Find Real Love w/ Esther Perel EP 1277

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Jun 8, 2022
Esther Perel, a renowned psychotherapist and bestselling author, shares her expertise on modern relationships. She reveals red flags to avoid while navigating love and discusses why the idea of unconditional love may be a myth. Esther emphasizes the importance of emotional growth, self-worth, and maintaining individuality within partnerships. She also explores the complexities of jealousy and how societal changes, particularly from the pandemic, have influenced relationship dynamics today. Get ready for insightful perspectives on building healthier connections!
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INSIGHT

Disasters as Relationship Accelerators

  • Disasters accelerate relationship decisions, revealing priorities and fragility.
  • This leads to quicker commitments (marriage, babies) or faster breakups.
INSIGHT

Divorce Rates and Marriage Number

  • Second marriages have higher divorce rates than first marriages, possibly due to reduced fear and tolerance.
  • Third marriages, however, have lower divorce rates, potentially due to personal growth and becoming better partners.
ADVICE

Building Strong Relationship Foundations

  • Build relationships with emotional accountability and outside perspectives, like therapy or shared books.
  • This approach fosters alignment on values and vision, creating stronger foundations beyond just chemistry.
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