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Mentioned in 14 episodes
Eight Dates
Essential Conversations for a Lifetime of Love
Book • 2019
In 'Eight Dates: Essential Conversations for a Lifetime of Love', John Gottman and Julie Schwartz Gottman provide a step-by-step guide to help couples navigate the challenges of long-term commitment.
Drawing from their extensive research at the Love Lab, the authors outline eight essential conversations that couples should have to build a strong and lasting relationship.
Each date is designed to address a different critical topic, including trust, conflict, intimacy, finances, family, adventure, spirituality, and dreams.
The book includes exercises, open-ended discussion questions, and suggestions for where to have these dates, aiming to foster deeper understanding, empathy, and connection between partners.
Drawing from their extensive research at the Love Lab, the authors outline eight essential conversations that couples should have to build a strong and lasting relationship.
Each date is designed to address a different critical topic, including trust, conflict, intimacy, finances, family, adventure, spirituality, and dreams.
The book includes exercises, open-ended discussion questions, and suggestions for where to have these dates, aiming to foster deeper understanding, empathy, and connection between partners.
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when discussing books to help couples understand each other better.


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as previous works by the Gottman's.


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as a new book about essential conversations for a lifetime of love.

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as a resource for couples wanting to improve their relationships.


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as a book containing prompts and questions about core values to discuss with a partner.

Audrey Hussey

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as a helpful resource for couples to improve communication and address relationship challenges.

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as a book that she loved and recommends everyone read and do.


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as a book that helped him and his girlfriend have important conversations about their relationship.


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