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Eight Dates

Essential Conversations for a Lifetime of Love
Book • 2019
In 'Eight Dates: Essential Conversations for a Lifetime of Love', John Gottman and Julie Schwartz Gottman provide a step-by-step guide to help couples navigate the challenges of long-term commitment.

Drawing from their extensive research at the Love Lab, the authors outline eight essential conversations that couples should have to build a strong and lasting relationship.

Each date is designed to address a different critical topic, including trust, conflict, intimacy, finances, family, adventure, spirituality, and dreams.

The book includes exercises, open-ended discussion questions, and suggestions for where to have these dates, aiming to foster deeper understanding, empathy, and connection between partners.

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as their latest book, offering structured conversations for couples.
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as previous works by the Gottman's.
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as a book that provided powerful, yet uncomfortable conversations about various aspects of life and relationships.
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as a helpful resource for understanding relationship dynamics and deal breakers.
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as a new book about essential conversations for a lifetime of love.
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as a resource for couples wanting to improve their relationships.
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as a book containing prompts and questions about core values to discuss with a partner.
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as a book that helped him and his girlfriend have important conversations about their relationship.
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