

John Gottman
World-renowned researcher on marital stability and divorce prediction. Co-founder of The Gottman Institute and author of numerous books and articles on relationships.
Top 10 podcasts with John Gottman
Ranked by the Snipd community

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Sep 16, 2024 • 2h 18min
The Gottman Doctors: Affairs Can Actually Save Your Relationship! But If You See This, It's Time To Walk Away!
Drs. John and Julie Gottman, renowned psychologists and co-founders of The Gottman Institute, delve into the complexities of love. They discuss how infidelity can actually serve as an opportunity for growth in relationships, boasting a 75% success rate for healing after affairs. The Gottmans also illuminate the pitfalls of dating apps and the necessity of genuine communication in maintaining connections. With insights on navigating modern loneliness and the flawed pursuit of 'the one,' their expertise sheds light on fostering healthier, more resilient partnerships.

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Dec 13, 2022 • 45min
The science of healthy relationships with John and Julie Gottman
John and Julie Gottman, renowned psychologists and co-founders of the Gottman Institute, share their expertise on creating and maintaining healthy relationships. They discuss avoiding the 'four horsemen of marital apocalypse,' navigating criticism, and the emotional toll of conflict. The couple explores practical tools like the Gottman Connect platform to improve communication. They also reflect on how the pandemic impacted relationships, amplifying strengths and challenges, while emphasizing the need for understanding and support in overcoming obstacles.

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Feb 5, 2024 • 1h 6min
Fight Right: The Science of Healthy Conflict | Drs. John and Julie Gottman
Drs. John and Julie Gottman, co-founders of The Gottman Institute, share their decades of research on relationship dynamics. They discuss the three conflict styles essential for navigating disagreements, emphasizing that conflicts can lead to deeper connections. The couple reveals why the first moments of a fight are crucial and debunks the myth of constructive criticism. They also clarify the difference between solvable and perpetual problems, providing insights on how to approach arguments with compassion and effective communication.

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Feb 19, 2024 • 35min
Can Couples Learn to Argue Better?
Join relationship experts John Gottman and Julie Schwartz Gottman as they unravel the art of arguing better. They discuss the importance of confronting conflict honestly rather than avoiding it. Listeners learn how unmet needs and past traumas can shape misunderstandings. The Gottmans share strategies to foster empathy and tackle grievances effectively, emphasizing the importance of addressing issues individually. They also highlight the role of compromise and accepting influence to strengthen trust and connection, all vital for relationship happiness.

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Nov 1, 2024 • 50min
A guide to being brave in relationships
Kelly Corrigan, a bestselling author and podcaster, joins renowned couples psychologists Julie and John Gottman to discuss the courage required in relationships. They delve into the intricate dynamics of love, vulnerability, and conflict, exploring how authentic connections can weather life's storms. The Gottmans share insights from their research on couple dynamics, while Corrigan reflects on empathy and support in family relationships. Together, they emphasize the importance of navigating desires and building chosen families as essential elements of bravery in love.

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Feb 13, 2024 • 25min
How to 'fight right' with your partner
In this engaging discussion, renowned relationship researchers Julie and John Gottman, who have spent 40 years studying marriage, share insights from their new book, 'Fight Right.' They explore how couples can navigate conflicts effectively, emphasizing the importance of communication and understanding differing fighting styles. The Gottmans introduce the Bagel Method for distinguishing between flexible and non-negotiable issues, turning disputes into opportunities for growth. With practical tools and strategies, they guide couples towards deeper connections and healthier interactions.

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Dec 13, 2022 • 45min
The science of healthy relationships with John and Julie Gottman
John and Julie Gottman, renowned psychologists and co-founders of the Gottman Institute, dive into the science of healthy relationships. They share transformative insights from their decades of research, focusing on conflict resolution and communication dynamics. The Gottmans touch on the effects of the pandemic on couples, the importance of positive emotions, and the role of humor in addressing common conflicts like cleanliness. Their latest book provides practical tools to enhance emotional safety and strengthen the love that lasts.

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Jan 31, 2024 • 1h 20min
Fighting Can Make Your Relationship Better—If You Do It THIS Way with Drs Julie & John Gottman
Dr. Julie Schwartz Gottman and Dr. John Gottman discuss couple's therapy and relationships, including the impact of quality relationships on lifespan, different fighting styles, the 5:1 ratio for successful fights, signs of healthy/unhealthy relationships, the Four Horsemen of the Apocalypse, love languages, building trust and happiness, handling irreconcilable fights, and advice for common listener fights.

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Sep 19, 2024 • 1h 26min
Masters vs Disasters of Relationships. This is the difference!
Dr. John Gottman, a leading researcher on relationships, and Julie Gottman, a clinical psychologist, share their insights into the intricacies of love and conflict. They discuss emotional bids and the crucial 20-to-1 positive interaction ratio necessary for healthy partnerships. The Gottmans explain the importance of trust, effective conflict navigation, and the four horsemen of relationship breakdowns. They underscore the roles of affection, humor, and understanding in nurturing intimacy, revealing strategies to heal and strengthen connections.

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Feb 12, 2024 • 58min
526: Relationship red flags & how to find The One | John Gottman, Ph.D. & Julie Gottman, Ph.D., the world’s leading relationship experts
Leading relationship experts, John and Julie Gottman, discuss green flags in relationships, conflict styles, rebuilding trust post-affair, and how to know if you've found The One. They share tips for successful partnerships and the ingredients for a lasting relationship.