TED Radio Hour

A guide to being brave in relationships

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Aug 22, 2025
In this enlightening discussion, writer Kelly Corrigan shares her experiences navigating family dynamics, reflecting on how courage shapes conversations. Clinical psychologist John Gottman reveals his research on communication patterns that can make or break relationships, emphasizing the importance of understanding conflict dynamics. Journalist Allison Gilbert discusses resilience in the face of loss, showcasing the bravery required to have difficult discussions. Together, they explore vulnerability, courage, and the complexities of forming genuine connections.
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ADVICE

Ask To Hear, Not To Fix

  • Use seven simple prompts: "Tell me more," "Go on," and "What else?" to invite someone to unpack their feelings.
  • Stay quiet and absorb rather than solving the problem for them so they can untangle it themselves.
INSIGHT

Presence Validates Hidden Weight

  • Being present and mirroring someone's mood validates their experience even when the problem seems small to you.
  • That validation can let the other person rest and release the weight they're carrying.
ANECDOTE

Last Conversations With Her Father

  • At her father's deathbed, Kelly asked "Tell me more" and listened as he unloaded decades-old small regrets.
  • Her patient listening let him say "I'm good, Levy" and rest that day.
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