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Mentioned in 11 episodes
Fight Right
How Successful Couples Turn Conflict Into Connection
Book • 2024
In 'Fight Right', Drs. John and Julie Gottman, founders of the world-famous Love Lab, share their decades of research to help couples understand and manage conflict effectively.
The book identifies five common mistakes couples make during conflicts and provides five secrets to get back on track.
It emphasizes the importance of understanding each person's unique conflict culture, which is shaped by their upbringing and past relationships.
The Gottmans guide readers through various conflict styles, such as Avoiders, Validators, and Volatiles, and offer practical tools to help couples adopt a collaborative approach, calming down, staying connected, and truly understanding each other during conflicts.
The book identifies five common mistakes couples make during conflicts and provides five secrets to get back on track.
It emphasizes the importance of understanding each person's unique conflict culture, which is shaped by their upbringing and past relationships.
The Gottmans guide readers through various conflict styles, such as Avoiders, Validators, and Volatiles, and offer practical tools to help couples adopt a collaborative approach, calming down, staying connected, and truly understanding each other during conflicts.
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Mentioned in 11 episodes
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and the Gottmans themselves throughout the podcast, detailing their research and advice on relationships.


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as a book on his list.


Cal Newport

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and the Gottmans themselves throughout the podcast, discussing their research and insights on relationships.


Steven Bartlett

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as a new book by the Gottmans, focusing on healthy arguments.


Dan Harris

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How Not to Ruin Your Relationships | Drs. John & Julie Gottman
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while discussing conflict resolution strategies.


Shaan Puri

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Is This The End Of The Pod?
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as a guide to improving conflict resolution in relationships.


Dan Harris

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Fight Right: The Science of Healthy Conflict | Drs. John and Julie Gottman
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as a guide to turning conflict into connection in relationships.


Laurie Santos

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Love Lessons from the "Masters of Relationships"
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as their latest book on conflict resolution in relationships.


Manoush Zomorodi

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A guide to being brave in relationships
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as a guide to turning conflict into connection in relationships.


Laurie Santos

77 snips
Can Couples Learn to Argue Better?
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, detailing keys to successful conflict resolution in couples.


John Gottman

52 snips
How to 'fight right' with your partner
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as the preeminent researcher on relationships in the world.


John Schinnerer

The Four Horsemen: How Defensiveness & Criticism Damage Relationships
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ao discutir os três estilos de conflito.

Marcelle Xavier

Pílula #24 / Quem é você na hora do conflito?