The Diary Of A CEO with Steven Bartlett The Gottman Doctors: Affairs Can Actually Save Your Relationship! But If You See This, It's Time To Walk Away!
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Sep 16, 2024 
Drs. John and Julie Gottman, renowned psychologists and co-founders of The Gottman Institute, delve into the complexities of love. They discuss how infidelity can actually serve as an opportunity for growth in relationships, boasting a 75% success rate for healing after affairs. The Gottmans also illuminate the pitfalls of dating apps and the necessity of genuine communication in maintaining connections. With insights on navigating modern loneliness and the flawed pursuit of 'the one,' their expertise sheds light on fostering healthier, more resilient partnerships.
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Internal Development
- Building your internal self is crucial for dating app success, as insecurity often leads to presenting a false image.
- Trusting your intuition and being genuine attracts others, unlike idealized portrayals.
Build Friendships First
- Build a supportive friendship network before actively dating to reduce loneliness and desperation.
- Talking to strangers can lead to friendships, reducing alienation and creating a foundation for dating.
Context Matters
- Attraction thrives in curious, non-judgmental social contexts, not artificial evaluation.
- Dating apps create a tense environment, while genuine interest and curiosity foster attraction.
