
The Happiness Lab: Getting Unstuck "Human Minds Are Stupid!" (with Rich Roll)
Rich Roll, a transformational coach and host of The Rich Roll Podcast, dives deep with Dr. Laurie Santos to explore the quirks of the human mind that sabotage our happiness. They dissect the science-backed 'rewirements' that can lead to joy and how societal pressures warp our understanding of fulfillment. The duo delves into concepts like negative visualization to enhance gratitude and stresses the transformative power of curiosity and personal agency in achieving true well-being. Tune in for insights on balancing ambition, community connections, and the little things that can elevate happiness.
02:22:45
Human Minds Mislead Our Pursuit
- Our minds repeatedly mispredict what will make us happy and chase the wrong things.
- Laurie Santos warns this leads to the "arrival fallacy" of endless future chasing.
Visualize Problems, Not Just Success
- Visualize obstacles and realistic steps rather than only fantasizing success.
- Gabrielle Oettingen's work shows positive fantasies can reduce effort unless paired with planning.
Plan If-Then Responses For Setbacks
- Combine obstacle visualization with if-then plans to rehearse responses to setbacks.
- Michael Phelps visualized race mishaps and practiced responses so he could remain calm and win.
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Intro
00:00 • 5min
Understanding Happiness in College Life
05:24 • 10min
The Complexity of Happiness and Goal Setting
15:07 • 15min
The Neuroscience of Goal Setting and Planning
30:07 • 4min
The Pursuit of True Happiness
34:33 • 13min
Finding Happiness Through Negative Visualization
47:43 • 17min
Navigating Pain and Uncertainty: A Conversation on Human Experience
01:05:09 • 2min
Finding Purpose in Everyday Life
01:07:18 • 10min
The Power of Small Acts: Enhancing Happiness through Generosity
01:16:49 • 8min
The Happiness Spectrum: Introverts vs. Extroverts
01:24:52 • 16min
The Balance Between Ambition and Happiness
01:40:24 • 5min
The Transformative Power of Curiosity
01:45:11 • 15min
The Pursuit of Happiness: Embracing the Journey
02:00:00 • 20min
Reviving Community Connections
02:19:32 • 3min
Understanding Mental Health Complexities
02:22:53 • 6min
Harnessing Personal Agency for Happiness
02:28:24 • 5min

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On his podcast, Rich Roll seeks to give his listeners the knowledge to unleash their best selves. He invited Dr Laurie on his show to explain the science-backed "rewirements" she recommends to make us happier. The wide-ranging interview covers lots of topics - but tackles the tricky question of why the human mind often encourages us to do things that are actually bad for our happiness.
The Happiness Lab will be back with a new series after Labor Day, but we'll be bringing you more interviews with Dr Laurie throughout the summer.
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