The Happiness Lab with Dr. Laurie Santos

"Human Minds Are Stupid!" (with Rich Roll)

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Aug 11, 2025
Rich Roll, a transformational coach and host of The Rich Roll Podcast, dives deep with Dr. Laurie Santos to explore the quirks of the human mind that sabotage our happiness. They dissect the science-backed 'rewirements' that can lead to joy and how societal pressures warp our understanding of fulfillment. The duo delves into concepts like negative visualization to enhance gratitude and stresses the transformative power of curiosity and personal agency in achieving true well-being. Tune in for insights on balancing ambition, community connections, and the little things that can elevate happiness.
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INSIGHT

Human Minds Mislead Our Pursuit

  • Our minds repeatedly mispredict what will make us happy and chase the wrong things.
  • Laurie Santos warns this leads to the "arrival fallacy" of endless future chasing.
ADVICE

Visualize Problems, Not Just Success

  • Visualize obstacles and realistic steps rather than only fantasizing success.
  • Gabrielle Oettingen's work shows positive fantasies can reduce effort unless paired with planning.
ADVICE

Plan If-Then Responses For Setbacks

  • Combine obstacle visualization with if-then plans to rehearse responses to setbacks.
  • Michael Phelps visualized race mishaps and practiced responses so he could remain calm and win.
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