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Mentioned in 17 episodes
Getting the Love You Want
A Guide for Couples
Book • 1988
This book, written by Dr. Harville Hendrix and Dr. Helen LaKelly Hunt, explains how unconscious childhood experiences influence adult relationships.
It suggests that people often choose partners who resemble their caregivers, hoping to resolve unfinished childhood issues.
The authors provide a structured approach, including the 'Imago Dialogue,' to help couples communicate effectively, resolve power struggles, and heal early childhood wounds.
The book combines behavioral science, depth psychology, social learning theory, Gestalt therapy, and interpersonal neuroscience to enhance closeness and fulfill relationships.
It suggests that people often choose partners who resemble their caregivers, hoping to resolve unfinished childhood issues.
The authors provide a structured approach, including the 'Imago Dialogue,' to help couples communicate effectively, resolve power struggles, and heal early childhood wounds.
The book combines behavioral science, depth psychology, social learning theory, Gestalt therapy, and interpersonal neuroscience to enhance closeness and fulfill relationships.
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Mentioned in 17 episodes
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as his single favorite relationship book.


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as game-changing work for healthy relationships, addressing childhood wounds and improving communication.


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as a book that teaches communication tools, including Imago Dialogue.


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as a book about communication methods in relationships.

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as the classic book about wanting to heal what you didn’t get in childhood.


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when defining the three stages of relationship: merge, power struggle, and interdependence.

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as experts on love, relationships, and communication; their work forms the basis of the podcast discussion.


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as a powerful book that changed the way he saw relationships.


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as a helpful resource for improving communication and managing conflict in relationships.


Julie Rice

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who references it while discussing her coaching approach and influences.

Ina Mel

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as a book that redefined her understanding of relationships.


Oprah Winfrey

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as a resource for understanding Imago work.

Sheleana Aiyana

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Berthold bespreekt dit boek in de podcast.

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in relation to the concept of projecting parental issues onto partners.


Krista Williams

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as the source of the Imago Dialogue process, recommending listeners seek out their work.


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while discussing the psychology of attracting partners who reflect familiar relationship patterns.


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