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Getting the Love You Want

A Guide for Couples
Book • 1988
This book, written by Dr. Harville Hendrix and Dr. Helen LaKelly Hunt, explains how unconscious childhood experiences influence adult relationships.

It suggests that people often choose partners who resemble their caregivers, hoping to resolve unfinished childhood issues.

The authors provide a structured approach, including the 'Imago Dialogue,' to help couples communicate effectively, resolve power struggles, and heal early childhood wounds.

The book combines behavioral science, depth psychology, social learning theory, Gestalt therapy, and interpersonal neuroscience to enhance closeness and fulfill relationships.

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Mentioned in 13 episodes

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Mark Manson
as his single favorite relationship book.
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as a book offering frameworks for resolving relationship issues.
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Marie Forleo
as game-changing work for healthy relationships, addressing childhood wounds and improving communication.
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Krista Williams
as a book that talks about making your partner your parent and projecting pain.
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Marie Forleo
as a book that teaches communication tools, including Imago Dialogue.
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Marc Gafni
as a book about communication methods in relationships.
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Dean Spade
as the classic book about wanting to heal what you didn’t get in childhood.
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Jillian Turecki
as experts on love, relationships, and communication; their work forms the basis of the podcast discussion.
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Julie Rice
as a helpful resource for improving communication and managing conflict in relationships.
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Oprah Winfrey
as a book that redefined her understanding of relationships.
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Sheleana Aiyana
as a resource for understanding Imago work.
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Aaron Doughty
to explain the Imago concept in relationships.
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Oprah Winfrey
as a book that redefined her understanding of relationships and their connection to past experiences.
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Ina Mel
who references it while discussing her coaching approach and influences.
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Krista Williams
in relation to the concept of projecting parental issues onto partners.
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Oprah Winfrey
as a book that redefined her understanding of relationships.
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Whitney Cummings
as an incredible book for couples.
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Thea Harvey
as a helpful resource for couples.
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