How To Talk To Girls Podcast What She’s Thinking When You Approach Her
Aug 7, 2025
Ina Mel, a relationship coach from the John Gottman Institute, shares valuable insights into what women really think when approached by men. She discusses how women quickly size up potential partners and what makes them feel safe versus creeped out. The conversation highlights the importance of genuine communication, emotional security, and understanding masculine and feminine energy dynamics. Ina also offers strategies for fostering meaningful connections and navigating the delicate balance of attraction and emotional bonds.
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Masculine Energy in Women
- Many successful women have masculine energy, which can intimidate men.
- Balancing masculine independence with feminine receptiveness helps attract the right partner.
Women Seek Safety First
- Women judge a man's intention immediately when approached.
- They seek emotional and physical safety before feeling attraction.
Confident Persistence Attracts
- Persistency works when clearly showing what you want like asking for a date.
- Avoid being passive aggressive or unclear to maintain respect.
