Heal Your Heartbreak

#295 How Detachment Can Transform Your Breakup Recovery with Sabrina Bendory

Nov 11, 2025
Sabrina Bendory, a relationship and confidence coach, shares insightful strategies on detaching from outcomes to effectively recover from heartbreak. She clarifies that detachment is not emotional shutdown but anchors self-worth. Sabrina offers practical tips on rewriting your breakup story, embracing grief, and identifying unmet needs. She emphasizes self-kindness during recovery, exploring new connections, and approaching dating with a growth mindset. This episode is a treasure trove for anyone looking to heal and grow after a breakup!
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INSIGHT

Detachment Is Internal, Not Cold

  • Detachment means anchoring your worth internally rather than shutting down emotionally.
  • Sabrina Bendory emphasizes detaching from outcomes, not feelings or people.
ADVICE

Control Your Inputs, Not Outcomes

  • Take ownership of what you can control like healing, confidence, and showing up more.
  • Detach from timing and outcomes while maximizing the actions that increase your chances.
ANECDOTE

A Breakup That Shaped Belief

  • Sabrina recounts a devastating toxic breakup at 21 where her ex cheated and left her for someone else.
  • She internalized being "not good enough," which shaped her future dating beliefs.
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