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Mentioned in 26 episodes

The All-or-Nothing Marriage

How the Best Marriages Work

Book • 2019

Author

Eli Finkel

In this book, Eli J. Finkel presents a groundbreaking investigation of marriage, showing that the best marriages today are superior to those of earlier eras.

He combines cutting-edge scientific research with practical advice, discussing the evolution of marriage from providing basic needs like food and shelter to modern expectations of love, companionship, and personal growth.

Finkel introduces 'lovehacks' and strategies for better communication and responsiveness, and offers guidance on recalibrating expectations.

The book is designed for anyone looking to improve their marriage, from newlyweds to empty nesters, and those considering marriage or remarriage.

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Mentioned in 26 episodes

Mentioned by

Paul Brunson

as the author of a book discussing the evolution of marriage and the pragmatic, romantic, and self-expression phases.

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Mentioned by Paul Brunson when discussing marriage satisfaction.

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Mentioned by

Esther Perel

when discussing what creates a sense of aliveness in relationships.

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Mentioned by

Louise Perry

when discussing modern marriage expectations.

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Mentioned by

Bari Weiss

as a book about the stages of marriage in American history.

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Mentioned by

Vanessa Bohns

while discussing research on third-party perspective-taking in relationships.

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Mentioned by

Eric Barker

in the context of modern marriage, highlighting his research on happy marriages.

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Mentioned by

William Costello

to illustrate the increasing pressure on marriage to fulfill multiple roles.

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Mentioned by Arthur Brooks, building on

John Delony

's point, as the author of work on marriage and its complexities.

83 snips

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Mentioned by

Robert Waldinger

in the context of romantic relationships and expectations.

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Mentioned by

Kristen Berman

when discussing the benefits of living in a community.

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Mentioned by

William Costello

as a book discussing how high stakes are put on marriages in recent decades.

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Mentioned by

David McRaney

as a book by

Eli Finkel

detailing his research on modern marriages.

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Mentioned by Dr.

Eli Finkel

as his bestselling book on marriage dynamics.

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Mentioned by

Esther Perel

when discussing the challenges and expectations of modern relationships.

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Mentioned by

Laurie Santos

as the author of the book and an expert on relationships.

13 snips

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Recommended by

Daniel Pink

for insights into the social psychology of marriage and how it has changed over time.

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Mentioned by

Robert Waldinger

in the context of discussing the importance of diverse relationships beyond primary partnerships.

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Mentioned by

Eli Finkel

when discussing the calibration of expectations in relationships.

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Mentioned by

Logan Ury

as a book that discusses marriage and applies it to Maslow’s hierarchy of needs.

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