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Mentioned in 22 episodes
The All-or-Nothing Marriage
How the Best Marriages Work
Book • 2019
In this book, Eli J. Finkel presents a groundbreaking investigation of marriage, showing that the best marriages today are superior to those of earlier eras.
He combines cutting-edge scientific research with practical advice, discussing the evolution of marriage from providing basic needs like food and shelter to modern expectations of love, companionship, and personal growth.
Finkel introduces 'lovehacks' and strategies for better communication and responsiveness, and offers guidance on recalibrating expectations.
The book is designed for anyone looking to improve their marriage, from newlyweds to empty nesters, and those considering marriage or remarriage.
He combines cutting-edge scientific research with practical advice, discussing the evolution of marriage from providing basic needs like food and shelter to modern expectations of love, companionship, and personal growth.
Finkel introduces 'lovehacks' and strategies for better communication and responsiveness, and offers guidance on recalibrating expectations.
The book is designed for anyone looking to improve their marriage, from newlyweds to empty nesters, and those considering marriage or remarriage.
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Mentioned in 22 episodes
Mentioned by 
Paul Brunson as the author of a book discussing the evolution of marriage and the pragmatic, romantic, and self-expression phases.
Paul Brunson as the author of a book discussing the evolution of marriage and the pragmatic, romantic, and self-expression phases.
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Paul Brunson: "The 70/30 Body Shape Is Scientifically The Most Sexy", "The ONE Question That Predicts Divorce!" & "The Link Between Childhood Trauma & Sex"
Mentioned by Paul Brunson when discussing marriage satisfaction.
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Paul Brunson: Women Need To Lower Their Standards! If They Have These 3 Traits, Never Let Them Go! If You Get Sick, There’s A 624% Chance He’ll Leave!
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Vanessa Bohns while discussing research on third-party perspective-taking in relationships.
Vanessa Bohns while discussing research on third-party perspective-taking in relationships.
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The Science of Persuasion | Vanessa Bohns
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Eric Barker in the context of modern marriage, highlighting his research on happy marriages.
Eric Barker in the context of modern marriage, highlighting his research on happy marriages.
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The Surprising Science Behind Building Stronger Relationships
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William Costello to illustrate the increasing pressure on marriage to fulfill multiple roles.
William Costello to illustrate the increasing pressure on marriage to fulfill multiple roles.
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Mentioned by William Costello as a book discussing how high stakes are put on marriages in recent decades.
William Costello as a book discussing how high stakes are put on marriages in recent decades.
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Mating Crisis: Why The Rate Of Single Men Looking For Dates Has Declined | William Costello PT 1
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Robert Waldinger in the context of discussing the importance of diverse relationships beyond primary partnerships.
Robert Waldinger in the context of discussing the importance of diverse relationships beyond primary partnerships.
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BITESIZE | The #1 Lesson From The World’s Longest Scientific Study of Happiness | Robert Waldinger and Marc Schulz #441
Recommended by 
Daniel Pink for insights into the social psychology of marriage and how it has changed over time.
Daniel Pink for insights into the social psychology of marriage and how it has changed over time.
Daniel Pink ON: How to Master Time Management & Turn Procrastination into Productivity
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Logan Ury as a book that discusses marriage and applies it to Maslow’s hierarchy of needs.
Logan Ury as a book that discusses marriage and applies it to Maslow’s hierarchy of needs.
9 Proven Tips to Finding the One from Top Love Scientist (+ How To Navigate Modern Dating & Relationships)
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Louise Perry as a book exploring how ideas of marriage have changed over time and the challenges of modern marriage.
Louise Perry as a book exploring how ideas of marriage have changed over time and the challenges of modern marriage.
A Life Without Children - Meghan Daum | Maiden Mother Matriarch Episode 119
Mentioned by Nate Bagley when discussing the evolution of marriage and expectations in modern relationships.
How to Transform Your Relationship from a Mediocre Marriage to a Passionate Partnership
