Apple News In Conversation Rebroadcast: Esther Perel on the real reasons couples fight
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Jan 2, 2025 
Esther Perel, a renowned couples therapist and author, shares her insights on the intricacies of modern relationships. She discusses the hidden narratives that often spark conflicts, emphasizing the need for effective communication. Perel explores evolving relationship expectations and the impact of personal fulfillment, while also addressing the challenges of intimacy and trust. Additionally, she highlights the importance of community support in strengthening partnerships, encouraging couples to navigate their emotional journeys together.
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Evolving Relationship Expectations
- Modern relationships face immense pressure due to evolving expectations.
- We expect one person to fulfill what a village once did, leading to disappointment.
Complementarity in Relationships
- Relationships thrive on complementarity, not just differences.
- Partners often embody opposing needs like security and freedom, creating interdependence.
Affair for Self-Discovery
- A woman in a heterosexual couple had an affair to rediscover her independence.
- She felt empowered but also guilty about hurting her partner.
