The Happiness Lab with Dr. Laurie Santos Keep Your Relationship Healthy
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Apr 2, 2020 
Eli Finkel, a psychology professor at Northwestern University and author of 'The All-or-Nothing Marriage,' discusses the strains on romantic relationships during the pandemic. He highlights how couples can leverage this crisis to address lingering issues and emphasize the importance of shared experiences. Finkel introduces practical strategies—dubbed 'love hacks'—for enhancing communication and connection while navigating financial and emotional stress. He stresses prioritizing quality time and empathy to nurture relationships in tough times.
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Stress and Relationships
- Forced togetherness during stressful times can strain relationships.
- However, it also presents opportunities for improvement and deeper connection.
Hurricane Hugo's Impact on Relationships
- Hurricane Hugo caused a surge in divorce rates due to increased stress.
- It also led to higher marriage and fertility rates, showing stressors' mixed impact.
Evolving Expectations in Marriage
- Modern marriages aim for deeper connection, like personal growth, unlike past eras.
- This leads to higher satisfaction for successful couples, but also higher expectations and potential unhappiness.
