Eric Barker, author of "Plays Well with Others," dives into the surprising science of relationships. He tackles the pitfalls of misreading emotions and the importance of clear communication. Barker reveals why friendships can bring immense joy, but ambivalent connections can harm us more than enemies. He discusses the challenges of modern marriage and the key to sustaining happiness: maintaining a positive perspective. With insights on vulnerability and trust, he shares practical advice for nurturing deeper connections.

Welcome to another insightful episode of Unmistakable Creative, where we delve into the surprising science behind relationships with our esteemed guest, Eric Barker. As a renowned author and thought leader, Barker brings a fresh perspective to our understanding of relationships, challenging conventional wisdom with evidence-based insights.In this episode, Barker unravels the complexities of human relationships, drawing from his extensive research and unique approach to behavioral science. He challenges the status quo, debunking common myths and misconceptions with compelling scientific evidence. Barker's insights are not only thought-provoking but also practical, offering listeners actionable advice to improve their interpersonal relationships.Join us as we explore the fascinating world of relationships through the lens of Eric Barker. This episode is a must-listen for anyone seeking to deepen their understanding of human connections and improve their relationships. Tune in to Unmistakable Creative for this enlightening conversation with Eric Barker, and discover why everything you thought you knew about relationships might be wrong. Subscribe for ad-free interviews and bonus episodes https://plus.acast.com/s/the-unmistakable-creative-podcast. Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

Esther Perel, a renowned psychotherapist and author, dives into building strong relationship foundations. Gary John Bishop shares secrets for thriving love, while Jillian Turecki discusses common relationship mistakes and the power of accountability. Eric Barker highlights the path to true love and healthy emotional expression. Together, they explore the complexities of modern relationships, emphasizing the importance of self-awareness, commitment, and open communication to foster fulfilling connections.

Jillian Turecki, a certified relationship coach, discusses major mistakes to avoid in love while promoting accountability. Eric Barker, a best-selling author, shares insights on expressing emotions healthily and finding true love. The conversation dives into the complexities of modern relationships, addressing the pressures of unrealistic expectations and navigating ambivalence. Experts emphasize the importance of self-worth, emotional acceptance, and building deep connections, offering strategies for thriving in love amidst a superficial dating culture.

In this episode we ask what really produces success by looking at what separates truly successful people from the rest, we examine many common and conflicting “success maxims” and look at what the data actually says really works, we dig deep into the vital importance of knowing yourself and your own strengths, look at the power of aligning your work with your environment, and discuss the dangers of constantly overcommitting your time with Eric Barker.Eric Barker is the creator of the blog “Barking Up The Wrong Tree” - with over 290,000 subscribers.  His work is syndicated by Time Magazine, Business Insider and he has been featured in the Wall Street Journal, The New York Times and more. Just recently, his new book Barking up the Wrong Tree: The Surprising Science Behind Why Everything You Know About Success Is (Mostly) Wrong was named a Wall Street Journal Bestseller.See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

Eric Barker is not a people person. “Getting me to write a relationship book,” he says, “is like asking Godzilla to improve the infrastructure in your city.” But he did it anyway. Guided by leading social psychologists, Eric went on a journey to understand what he was getting wrong about relationships — and what he could do to turn things around. The result is “Plays Well With Others,” a guide to friendship, intimacy, loneliness, and belonging that our curator Daniel Pink says will “revitalize your life.”THIS AND THAT:Check out Eric’s blog, “Barking Up the Wrong Tree”Try out Arthur Aron’s intimacy building questionsDownload the Next Big Idea app

Eric Barker, author of the bestsellers "Barking Up the Wrong Tree" and "Plays Well with Others," dives into the complexities of relationships. He emphasizes the need for uncomfortable conversations early on and offers three critical questions to consider before committing. Barker explores how love has evolved, the distinction between loneliness and solitude, and how vulnerability can deepen connections. He also discusses the impact of social media on relationships, highlighting the balance between online and face-to-face interactions.

Eric Barker teaches our curator Daniel Pink how to make friends, disarm marital conflicts, and spot liars.

Eric Barker, a best-selling author known for his science-backed insights, dives into the intricate world of finding true love. He discusses how strong relationships can enhance health and longevity, revealing the historical evolution of loneliness and its emotional toll. Barker highlights the shift towards individualism that altered our perception of loneliness and the fundamental need for emotional connection. He also underscores the importance of building a community and the potential of positive idealization in nurturing satisfying, lasting relationships.

Today we welcome Eric Barker, the author of The Wall Street Journal bestseller Barking Up the Wrong Tree. His book has sold over half a million copies and has been translated into 19 languages. It was even the subject of a question on “Jeopardy!” Eric is also a sought-after speaker, having given talks at MIT, the Aspen Ideas Festival, Google, the United States Military Central Command (CENTCOM), and the Olympic Training Center. His newest book is called Plays Well with Others.In this episode, I talk to Eric Barker about relationships. We tackle the misconceptions on loneliness, marriage, and body language. Eric shares practical tips that we can apply in our own relationships such as how to keep passionate love alive and how to catch liars. We also touch on the topics of communication, vulnerability, community and health. Website: bakadesuyo.comTwitter: @bakadesuyo Topics02:18 Plays Well with Others05:11 Loneliness is perception08:38 Marriage requires crazy love and work 10:57 Gottman’s Four Horsemen of Divorce15:26 Keeping passionate love alive 19:02 Emotional endings and love maps 24:28 The Scary Rule 28:14 Dunbar’s number30:49 Parasocial relationships 35:32 Body language is overrated39:04 How to catch a liar42:11 Story of connectionSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.