The School of Greatness The Science Behind What We Get Wrong About Relationships EP 1328
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Oct 5, 2022 
Eric Barker, author of the bestsellers "Barking Up the Wrong Tree" and "Plays Well with Others," dives into the complexities of relationships. He emphasizes the need for uncomfortable conversations early on and offers three critical questions to consider before committing. Barker explores how love has evolved, the distinction between loneliness and solitude, and how vulnerability can deepen connections. He also discusses the impact of social media on relationships, highlighting the balance between online and face-to-face interactions.
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Maintain Open Communication and Excitement
- Have uncomfortable conversations early in your relationships.
- Keep dating your partner with exciting adventures and emotional contagion.
Love Maps and Avoiding Negative Sentiment Override
- Negative sentiment override happens when lack of communication compounds negatively.
- Create love maps by asking deep questions about love, happiness, and partnership.
Define Shared Values and Create a Custom Script
- Ask your partner what love, a good partner, and marriage mean to them.
- Define a custom relationship script together, as modern relationships lack formal rules.
