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Honestly with Bari Weiss

How to Find Love in 2025

Feb 13, 2025
Louise Perry, the author of 'The Case Against the Sexual Revolution', discusses the complexities of dating and relationships today. She argues that the sexual revolution has led to a breakdown in connections between men and women. Topics include Gen Z's loneliness, the paradox of choice in dating apps, and the challenges faced by successful women. Perry suggests that a revival of Christian sexual ethics might help restore meaningful connections. The conversation also touches on the evolving dynamics of marriage and the impact of societal shifts on love.
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  • The breakdown in romantic relationships today is largely attributed to the sexual revolution's impact on accountability and courtship norms.
  • Despite having many dating app options, young people report greater difficulties in forming meaningful connections due to overwhelming choices and differing relationship expectations.

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The Breakdown of Sexual Relations

Many young people today experience a significant breakdown in romantic and sexual relations, particularly between men and women. Data shows that a large percentage of Gen Z individuals report not engaging in sexual activity and feeling chronically lonely. Louise Perry attributes this decline to multiple societal changes, but chiefly to the sexual revolution, which she argues has paradoxically liberated women while also diminishing men's accountability in intimate relationships. This breakdown has made navigating romantic connections increasingly difficult as societal structures that once guided courtship have become much less formalized.

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