Louise Perry, the author of 'The Case Against the Sexual Revolution', discusses the complexities of dating and relationships today. She argues that the sexual revolution has led to a breakdown in connections between men and women. Topics include Gen Z's loneliness, the paradox of choice in dating apps, and the challenges faced by successful women. Perry suggests that a revival of Christian sexual ethics might help restore meaningful connections. The conversation also touches on the evolving dynamics of marriage and the impact of societal shifts on love.
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Breakdown of Sexual Relations
Modern society has seen a breakdown in sexual relations, impacting young people's ability to find love and partners.
Technological and societal changes have disrupted traditional methods of finding partners, leaving young people to improvise.
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Dating App Paradox
Dating apps offer more choices but haven't made finding partners easier, potentially due to choice overload and differing preferences between sexes.
The normalization of premarital sex has decreased women's leverage in relationships, especially with the abundance of options for men.
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Delaying Sex
Louise Perry advises her children to wait until engagement before having sex.
She argues that the risks, especially emotional asymmetry and clouded judgment, outweigh any perceived benefits.
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A New Guide to Sex in the 21st Century: The Young Adult Adaptation of ‘The Case Against the Sexual Revolution’
Louise Perry
This book is an adaptation of Louise Perry's 'The Case Against the Sexual Revolution' tailored for a young adult audience. Perry argues that the changes brought about by the sexual revolution, such as the widespread availability of pornography and the normalization of casual sex, have primarily benefited a small group of powerful men while harming women. She draws on her experience working in a rape crisis centre and presents a critical view of the sex-positive movement, highlighting its potential to mask harms and ignore the innate differences between men and women. The book aims to guide young readers through the complexities and dangers of modern sexual culture.
Sex and Culture
Joseph Daniel Unwin
In 'Sex and Culture', J.D. Unwin examines the relationship between a civilization’s success and the sexuality of its people. He studied 80 primitive tribes and 6 known civilizations over 5,000 years of history and found a positive correlation between cultural achievement and the amount of sexual restraint observed. Unwin argues that societies which impose strict prenuptial and postnuptial sexual restraints tend to achieve higher levels of cultural development, while those that become more sexually liberal experience a decline in their cultural energy and eventual downfall. He categorizes societies into four cultural conditions: zoistic, manistic, deistic, and rationalistic, based on their spiritual and social practices. Unwin also emphasizes the importance of legal equality between men and women and the need for absolute monogamy to maintain a high level of cultural achievement.
The Case Against the Sexual Revolution
Lewis Perry
The All-or-Nothing Marriage
How the Best Marriages Work
Eli Finkel
In this book, Eli J. Finkel presents a groundbreaking investigation of marriage, showing that the best marriages today are superior to those of earlier eras. He combines cutting-edge scientific research with practical advice, discussing the evolution of marriage from providing basic needs like food and shelter to modern expectations of love, companionship, and personal growth. Finkel introduces 'lovehacks' and strategies for better communication and responsiveness, and offers guidance on recalibrating expectations. The book is designed for anyone looking to improve their marriage, from newlyweds to empty nesters, and those considering marriage or remarriage.
Dominion
The Power of Man, the Suffering of Animals, and the Call to Mercy
Matthew Scully
In 'Dominion,' Matthew Scully presents a comprehensive and eloquent case against the mistreatment of animals. The book delves into various aspects of animal suffering, including factory farming, hunting, whaling, and laboratory experiments. Scully challenges the notion that humans have unlimited dominion over animals, as suggested by biblical interpretations, and argues for a moral and compassionate approach to animal treatment. He draws on both religious and scientific perspectives to make his case, emphasizing the importance of empathy and the recognition of animal consciousness and suffering. The book is a call to action for reform and a plea for human benevolence and mercy towards animals.
Running The Free Press is Bari’s hobby, but her true passion is being a yenta. And one thing Bari has learned from talking to young singles is that there is a total breakdown of sexual relations these days between men and women.
This Valentine’s Day, Louise is here to explain how we went wrong as a society on dating, sex, porn, and marriage; how it is impacting women and men differently; how and if we can get back on track; how to date effectively in 2025; and how a revival of Christian sex ethics might be the answer.
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