In this book, Dr. Bessel van der Kolk uses recent scientific advances to show how trauma reshapes both the body and brain, compromising sufferers’ capacities for pleasure, engagement, self-control, and trust. He explores various treatments, including neurofeedback, meditation, sports, drama, and yoga, which activate the brain’s natural neuroplasticity to aid in recovery. The book emphasizes the power of relationships in both causing and healing trauma and offers hope through descriptions of novel approaches to treatment. It is based on Dr. van der Kolk’s own research and that of other leading specialists in the field[1][2][5].
This book delves into the application of Internal Family Systems (IFS) therapy within the context of supervision and consultation. It provides a comprehensive framework for supervisors and consultants to effectively guide and support therapists in their use of IFS. The book explores various aspects of IFS supervision, including parts work, self-leadership, and the therapeutic relationship, offering practical strategies and techniques for addressing common challenges. It emphasizes the importance of creating a safe and supportive environment for supervisees to explore their own experiences and develop their skills in IFS. The book also highlights the unique contributions of IFS to supervision, such as the focus on parts and the emphasis on self-compassion. It is a valuable resource for both experienced and novice IFS supervisors and consultants.
In "You Are the One You've Been Waiting For," Richard Schwartz applies the principles of Internal Family Systems (IFS) to the complexities of intimate relationships. He explores how unresolved inner conflicts and unmet needs from childhood can manifest in relationship patterns. The book emphasizes self-compassion and self-leadership as crucial for creating healthy connections. Schwartz provides practical tools and techniques for understanding and healing relational wounds, fostering deeper intimacy and connection. It offers a transformative approach to understanding and improving relationships.
This week's episode is a rather special one. In fact, I would say this is potentially one of the most important episodes I've ever released on my podcast because today, I am talking to Dr. Richard Schwartz. He's the creator of an incredible treatment modality called internal family systems, also known as IFS.
IFS has had a transformative impact on my own life - I feel calmer, more content and more at peace than I have ever done before. And without question, it has helped me to become a better husband and father. My hope is that this conversation might be the start of something life changing for you as well.
Dick begins by explaining how IFS rejects the idea that we each have one ‘true’ identity. Having multiple parts or personalities is not, as the movies would have us believe, a dangerous pathology. It’s a normal, healthy way for the mind to function. We often want to wish certain parts of ourselves away – if only we could get rid of our destructive streak, or silence the inner critic, say. But in IFS all our parts are welcome. Dick explains that they start out as valuable, but in early life trauma or attachment injuries can force these parts into destructive roles. He calls these ‘legacy burdens’. He explains how IFS works in the moment to help us revisit a trauma, retrieve the ‘stuck’ part of yourself and bring it to safety, thereby rewriting your story. It’s a guided self-healing.
The very best way to understand IFS is to witness a live demonstration. And that is exactly what happens in today’s conversation - I become the patient and Richard takes me through a real-time session.
IFS is an evidence based framework that helps a whole variety of different conditions - PTSD, addictions, anxiety, depression, eating disorders, rheumatoid arthritis, back pain and so much more. My firm belief is that IFS is a system that can help pretty much anyone whether they have a mental health diagnosis or not.
This really is a powerful conversation. I am so grateful to Dick for creating IFS but also for making time to come and speak to me on my podcast. I really hope that you enjoy listening.
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