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Us
Getting Past You and Me to Build a More Loving Relationship
Book • 2022
In this transformative book, Terrence Real addresses the impact of toxic individualism on intimate relationships.
He provides a science-backed skillset to help couples overcome repetitive fights and distant relationships by fostering a culture of compassion, collaboration, and closeness.
Real shares stories of couples whose relationships have been saved through these skills and discusses the broader cultural context that reinforces relationship dysfunction.
The book is praised for its insightful and practical advice, making it a valuable resource for those seeking true intimacy.
He provides a science-backed skillset to help couples overcome repetitive fights and distant relationships by fostering a culture of compassion, collaboration, and closeness.
Real shares stories of couples whose relationships have been saved through these skills and discusses the broader cultural context that reinforces relationship dysfunction.
The book is praised for its insightful and practical advice, making it a valuable resource for those seeking true intimacy.
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Mentioned in 9 episodes
Mentioned by
Tim Ferriss as a New York Times bestseller, focusing on building more loving relationships.


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Daniel Oppenheimer as one of the big names in the couples therapy world, author of various bestselling books.


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Mentioned during a discussion about books that explore the reasons behind avoidant and intrusive behaviors in relationships.

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Recommended by Allison Pataki as a required reading for any member of the human race, highlighting its valuable insights on relationships.

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Mentioned by
Mark Divine as one of his favorite authors in the field of relational development; Bruce Springsteen wrote the foreword.


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