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Mentioned in 13 episodes

Us

Getting Past You and Me to Build a More Loving Relationship

Book • 2022

In this transformative book, Terrence Real addresses the impact of toxic individualism on intimate relationships.

He provides a science-backed skillset to help couples overcome repetitive fights and distant relationships by fostering a culture of compassion, collaboration, and closeness.

Real shares stories of couples whose relationships have been saved through these skills and discusses the broader cultural context that reinforces relationship dysfunction.

The book is praised for its insightful and practical advice, making it a valuable resource for those seeking true intimacy.

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Mentioned in 13 episodes

Mentioned by

Tim Ferriss

as a New York Times bestseller, focusing on building more loving relationships.

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#810: Terry Real — The Therapist Who Breaks All The Rules

Mentioned by

Tim Ferriss

as a New York Times bestseller written by

Terry Real

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#798: Terry Real — Breaking the Rules of Traditional Couples Therapy for Superior Results, A Few Frameworks That Work

Mentioned by

Terry Real

from the father of family therapy.

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‘Modern Love’: Why Boys and Men Are Floundering, According to Therapist Terry Real

Mentioned by

Terry Real

as one of his books and a New York Times bestseller.

114 snips

Terry Real: Relationships, Trauma, and Inner Child Work

Mentioned by

Forrest Hanson

as the author of the new book, "Us", which comes out on June 7th.

83 snips

Intimacy, Individuality, and Breaking the Trauma Cycle with Terry Real

Mentioned as one of

Terry Real

's four books, focusing on building a more loving relationship.

67 snips

Rethinking Masculinity: Strength and Connection w/ Terry and Justin Real

Recommended by the speaker as a helpful book for understanding and resolving relationship issues.

32 snips

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Mentioned by

Daniel Oppenheimer

as one of the big names in the couples therapy world, author of various bestselling books.

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The Terry Real Deal

Mentioned by

David Duchovny

as one of

Terry Real

's best-selling relationship books that explores the toxic culture of individualism.

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The Pitfalls of Manhood with Terry Real

Mentioned during a discussion about books that explore the reasons behind avoidant and intrusive behaviors in relationships.

11 snips

The Toxic Truth: Unveiling Hidden Contaminants with Oligoscan and Jeff Lioon

Mentioned by

Terry Real

as his most recent book, a New York Times Bestseller, about building more loving relationships.

Dr. Terry Real | Healing Intergenerational Trauma Through Our Relationships

Recommended by Allison Pataki as a required reading for any member of the human race, highlighting its valuable insights on relationships.

Terrence Real, US: Past You and Me to Build a More Loving Relationship

Mentioned by

Ryan Holiday

as a book that includes a haunting scene about a father and son.

It’s About Them. It’s About Them.

Mentioned by

Talia Eisenberg

while discussing the effects of Ibogaine treatment.

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Mentioned by

Sameer Rahim

as a first collection from Faber about identity and childhood.

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Mentioned by

Zach Brittle

Terry Real

's book about building a more loving relationship.

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Mentioned by

Wayne Jacobson

when discussing the concept of adaptive children and their impact on relationships.

Finding Harmony Again (#999)

Quoted by Bruce Springsteen in the intro to

Terry Real

’s new book.

Love and repair with Terry Real

Mentioned by

Elise Loehnen

when discussing interdependence.

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