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Mentioned in 9 episodes

Us

Getting Past You and Me to Build a More Loving Relationship

Book • 2022

Bruce Springsteen

In this transformative book, Terrence Real addresses the impact of toxic individualism on intimate relationships.

He provides a science-backed skillset to help couples overcome repetitive fights and distant relationships by fostering a culture of compassion, collaboration, and closeness.

Real shares stories of couples whose relationships have been saved through these skills and discusses the broader cultural context that reinforces relationship dysfunction.

The book is praised for its insightful and practical advice, making it a valuable resource for those seeking true intimacy.

Mentioned by

Daniel Oppenheimer

Bret Easton Ellis

Talia Eisenberg

Mentioned in 9 episodes

Mentioned by

Tim Ferriss

as a New York Times bestseller, focusing on building more loving relationships.

#810: Terry Real — The Therapist Who Breaks All The Rules

Mentioned by

Tim Ferriss

as a New York Times bestseller written by

Terry Real

.

#798: Terry Real — Breaking the Rules of Traditional Couples Therapy for Superior Results, A Few Frameworks That Work

Mentioned by

Terry Real

from the father of family therapy.

‘Modern Love’: Why Boys and Men Are Floundering, According to Therapist Terry Real

Mentioned by

Forrest Hanson

as the author of the new book, "Us", which comes out on June 7th.

Intimacy, Individuality, and Breaking the Trauma Cycle with Terry Real

Mentioned by

Terry Real

as one of his books and a New York Times bestseller.

Terry Real: Relationships, Trauma, and Inner Child Work

Mentioned as one of

Terry Real

's four books, focusing on building a more loving relationship.

Rethinking Masculinity: Strength and Connection w/ Terry and Justin Real

Mentioned by

Daniel Oppenheimer

as one of the big names in the couples therapy world, author of various bestselling books.

The Terry Real Deal

Mentioned during a discussion about books that explore the reasons behind avoidant and intrusive behaviors in relationships.

The Toxic Truth: Unveiling Hidden Contaminants with Oligoscan and Jeff Lioon

Recommended by Allison Pataki as a required reading for any member of the human race, highlighting its valuable insights on relationships.

Terrence Real, US: Past You and Me to Build a More Loving Relationship

Mentioned by

Talia Eisenberg

while discussing the effects of Ibogaine treatment.

Talia Eisenberg (Beond): Beyond Addiction with Ibogaine

Quoted by Bruce Springsteen in the intro to

Terry Real

’s new book.

Love and repair with Terry Real

Mentioned by

Elise Loehnen

when discussing interdependence.

Introducing: Pulling the Thread with Elise Loehnen | Conflict as a Tool for Growth with Esther Perel

Mentioned by

Mark Divine

as one of his favorite authors in the field of relational development; Bruce Springsteen wrote the foreword.

514. Emotional Intelligence in the Age of AI W/ Catherine Divine

Mentioned by

Ben Shapiro

as a filmmaker whose work

Bret Easton Ellis

critiques.

Bret Easton Ellis | The Ben Shapiro Show Sunday Special Ep. 61

Mentioned by

Ann Kelly

as

Terry Real

's new book on building more loving relationships.

From Toxic Individualism to Relational Security with Terry Real (179)

Mentioned by

Wayne Jacobson

when discussing the concept of adaptive children and their impact on relationships.

Finding Harmony Again (#999)

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