Being Well with Forrest Hanson and Dr. Rick Hanson Rethinking Masculinity: Strength and Connection w/ Terry and Justin Real
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Jun 23, 2025 
In a candid discussion, renowned therapist Terry Real, founder of Relational Life Therapy, and his son, Justin Real, a startup founder, tackle the challenges modern men face. They explore how traditional masculinity can lead to emotional disconnection and the appeal of red pill cultures. Highlighting the importance of vulnerability and emotional intelligence, they advocate for redefining strength as relational power. Their insights delve into how men can build healthier relationships and navigate societal pressures while embracing a new model of masculinity.
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Patriarchy Causes Male Disconnection
- Patriarchy forces men to disconnect from their feelings, leading to emotional harm and relational difficulties.
- Terry Real advocates for men to embrace relationality and vulnerability while maintaining strength.
What Women Really Want
- Traditional masculine traits like dominance and emotional restriction are not what women truly desire.
- Women prefer emotional intelligence, warmth, and the ability to effectively manage feelings.
Pitching New Masculine Models
- Instead of shame, appeal to men's interest in better relationships and personal growth.
- Emphasize that men can be both dominant and relational in healthy, accepted ways.
