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I Don't Want to Talk About It
The Hidden Epidemic of Depression in Men
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Terry Real's "I Don't Want to Talk About It" explores the hidden epidemic of depression in men, connecting it to societal expectations of masculinity and emotional repression.
The book delves into the roots of male depression, often tracing them back to childhood experiences and the impact of traditional gender roles.
Real challenges the notion of stoicism and encourages men to embrace vulnerability and emotional expression.
He provides practical strategies for men to address their emotional struggles and build healthier relationships.
The book's impact lies in its ability to validate the experiences of men struggling with depression and offer a path towards healing and connection.
The book delves into the roots of male depression, often tracing them back to childhood experiences and the impact of traditional gender roles.
Real challenges the notion of stoicism and encourages men to embrace vulnerability and emotional expression.
He provides practical strategies for men to address their emotional struggles and build healthier relationships.
The book's impact lies in its ability to validate the experiences of men struggling with depression and offer a path towards healing and connection.
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Mentioned in 20 episodes
Mentioned by 

as the first mainstream book ever written on the topic of male depression.


Tim Ferriss

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Mentioned as a resource for understanding covert depression masked by busyness or addictive behavior.

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#813: Q&A with Tim — Three Life Commandments, 4-Hour Workweek Exercises I Still Use, The Art and Joy of Inefficiency, Stoicism Revisited, and Much More
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as a book focused on male depression and coping mechanisms.


Tim Ferriss

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Mentioned by Daniel Oppenheimer as a book that gave voice to the pain of depressed men and their partners.

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as a book that reveals the hidden legacy of male depression and the author's Relational Life Therapy (RLT) framework.


Peter Attia

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in relation to male depression and its impact on health.


Bari Weiss

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How to Live Longer and Healthier with Dr. Peter Attia
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as 

's classic bestseller.


Forrest Hanson


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Mentioned as one of 

's four books, focusing on the legacy of male depression.


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Rethinking Masculinity: Strength and Connection w/ Terry and Justin Real
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as an author whose work on men's depression was informed by feminist ideas.

Jackson Katz

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for its insights into male depression and its impact on conflict handling.

Bob Bordone

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in the context of understanding the impact of patriarchal thinking on men's emotional health.

Cory Richards

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The Color Of Everything: Cory Richards On Big Peaks, Being Bi-Polar, Healing From Trauma, PTSD, & Alcoholism
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for men who grew up with difficult fathers.


Kevin Rose

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Mentioned by John Deloney when discussing the balance between toughness and affection in masculinity.

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What’s The Deal With Men’s Mental Health? With John Delony
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as one of the big names in the couples therapy world, author of various bestselling books.


Daniel Oppenheimer

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Mentioned by Kelly during the discussion of the podcast's content.

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Mentioned by Parker Palmer as one of the best books written about depression among men.

#14 Shadow and Leadership - with Parker Palmer & Jerry Colonna
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as being instrumental in understanding and addressing depression and anxiety.


Dave Lewis

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as a therapist who helped him work through childhood trauma.


Peter Attia

Can Meditation Prolong Your Life?, Dr. Peter Attia
Mentioned by 

as his best-selling book about male depression.


Terry Real

Terry Real: Standing Up to One Another with Love
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as the first book ever written on the topic of male depression.

Zibby Owens

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