
Being Well with Forrest Hanson and Dr. Rick Hanson
Forrest Hanson is joined by clinical psychologist Dr. Rick Hanson and a world-class group of experts to explore the practical science of lasting well-being. Conversations focus on the key insights from psychology, science, and contemplative practice that you need to build reliable inner strengths, overcome your challenges, and get the most out of life. New episodes every Monday.
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Apr 21, 2025 • 1h 22min
Your Parents Are Emotionally Immature. Now What? w/ Dr. Lindsay Gibson
Dr. Lindsay Gibson joins Forrest to explore emotional immaturity, the consequences of growing up with emotionally immature caregivers, and what we can do to change those patterns in adulthood. They discuss the key signs of emotional immaturity, including egocentrism, low empathy, and affective realism. Dr. Gibson then shares how having an emotionally immature parent affects children, often by leading to emotional disconnection and people-pleasing, and the consequences of these patterns in adult life. Topics include the problems with “just be more compassionate,” estrangement, balancing competing desires, and how to heal in adulthood by reconnecting with your feelings, letting go of old fantasies, and setting healthy boundaries.About our Guest: Dr. Lindsay Gibson is a clinical psychologist and the author of the Emotional Immaturity series of books, including her bestseller Adult Children of Emotionally Immature Parents. You can watch this episode on YouTube.Key Topics:0:00: Introduction1:15: How Dr. Gibson defines emotional immaturity6:45: Markers of emotional immaturity in parents11:05: Emotional intelligence in children, loneliness, and regulating parents19:05: The arc of recovery, responding to feelings with thoughts, and healthy guidance31:00: Repeating patterns in relationships36:15: Letting go of the healing fantasy, and when to take space42:45: Estrangement, compassion, boundary setting, and becoming more authentic58:45: When healthy change creates social pressure1:01:55: Common misconceptions about emotional immaturity1:06:05: RecapSupport the Podcast: We're now on Patreon! If you'd like to support the podcast, follow this link.SponsorsHead to fastgrowingtrees.com/BEINGWELL to get 15% off the best deals for your yard. Use BEINGWELL at checkout, and take advantage of their Alive and Thrive Guarantee!Sign up for a one-dollar-per-month trial period at shopify.com/beingwell. Go to ZOE.com and find out what ZOE Membership could do for you. Use code WELL10 to get 10% off membership.Get 15% off OneSkin with the code BEINGWELL at https://www.oneskin.co/ Connect with the show:
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Apr 14, 2025 • 1h 9min
Self-Concept: The Secret to Changing WHO You Are
The hosts explore how self-concept shapes our identities and influences our lives. They discuss the dangers of rigid self-beliefs and the transformative power of psychological flexibility. Insights from Carl Rogers and Buddhist philosophy highlight the importance of humility and openness to change. The conversation emphasizes self-discovery through mindfulness and self-inventory, encouraging listeners to embrace their strengths while confronting flaws. It's a fascinating look at redefining self-identity for personal growth and authenticity.

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Apr 7, 2025 • 1h 13min
Linking: The Secret to Rewiring Painful Memories
Forrest and Dr. Rick delve into the powerful psychological technique of linking, exploring how it can help rewire painful memories. They discuss the neuroscience behind memory reconsolidation and the importance of pairing positive experiences with our past pains. Personal anecdotes and practical tips illuminate the process, emphasizing emotional awareness and resilience. Cautions are provided for safely practicing linking, along with insights on how to disentangle our adult selves from past traumas, fostering a transformative pathway to healing.

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Mar 31, 2025 • 1h 10min
How to Get On the Same Team: Relationship Mailbag
Dr. Rick and Forrest dive into essential relationship dynamics, tackling how to balance sensitivity with directness. They discuss the importance of communication styles and the impact of childhood experiences on adult behavior. Listeners learn strategies for bridging emotional processing gaps, setting healthy boundaries, and viewing challenges as collective issues. The conversation highlights the significance of teamwork in relationships and how small changes can foster deeper connections. Tune in for insights on transforming 'me problems' into 'we problems'!

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Mar 24, 2025 • 1h 25min
How to Find Your Path in Life with David Epstein
Bestselling author David Epstein, known for his work on human performance and self-development, discusses the value of being a generalist in a specialized world. He explores the common feeling of being 'behind' for those following non-linear career paths and emphasizes the importance of curiosity and adaptability. David challenges the 10,000-hour rule, highlighting how diverse experiences can lead to greater fulfillment. He shares practical insights on finding one's path, the benefits of experimentation, and the significance of mentorship in personal growth.

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Mar 17, 2025 • 1h 13min
How to Stop Overthinking: Rumination, OCD, and Breaking the Awareness Trap
Discover how self-awareness can sometimes hinder personal growth as the hosts explore the self-awareness trap. They delve into the differences between reflection and rumination, discussing how overthinking often masks avoidance. Strategies for managing attention and setting decision boundaries are shared, alongside the importance of an experimental mindset. The discussion encourages embracing uncertainty and viewing life as a series of experiments to boost personal growth and overcome anxiety.

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Mar 10, 2025 • 1h 21min
How to Get Your Life Together: The 90/10 Rule
Explore how the 90/10 rule can streamline personal growth by focusing on what truly matters. Discover the core elements that drive substantial life improvements while navigating well-being through relationships and personal fulfillment. Learn about the power of small, consistent actions and the significance of self-inquiry in understanding your own happiness. Enjoy insights on overcoming emotional challenges and fostering resilience, all while simplifying your approach to self-improvement.

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Mar 3, 2025 • 1h 20min
Improving Focus and Fixing Your Attention Span
Discover how to enhance your focus in a world full of distractions. The discussion covers the impact of dopamine on attention and motivation, while mindfulness techniques are highlighted as powerful tools for concentration. Explore the importance of embracing discomfort and cultivating self-compassion as strategies to improve mental resilience. Learn about the Goldilocks Zone and how managing emotional factors can bolster your ability to focus. Engage with innovative interventions aimed at reducing rumination and fostering meaningful connections.

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Feb 24, 2025 • 1h 23min
Protecting Yourself from Narcissistic People with Dr. Ramani Durvasula
Dr. Ramani Durvasula, a clinical psychologist and expert on narcissism, joins the discussion to unravel the complexities of narcissistic behavior. She lays out specific traits and the spectrum of narcissism, explaining why these individuals can be so hard to identify. The conversation dives into the emotional turmoil of relationships with narcissists, highlighting abusive patterns and offering strategies to become 'narcissist resistant.' Dr. Ramani emphasizes the importance of boundaries and self-care for healing from toxic dynamics.

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Feb 17, 2025 • 1h 1min
What to Do When Your Worst Fears Come True: Mailbag
Dive into the intricacies of handling fear and anxiety with practical insights. The hosts discuss strategies for facing dreaded experiences and the importance of self-compassion. They tackle how to approach constructive feedback without defensiveness. Social anxiety and relationship concerns are addressed, offering coping mechanisms like mental rehearsal. Plus, they unravel the challenges of mindfulness meditation, giving tips for those struggling with focus. It's an enlightening exploration of emotional resilience and personal growth.
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