The Daily Dad

How Do You Think It Feels?

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Jan 5, 2026
Explore the emotional landscape of parenting and consider your child's perspective. Discover the transformative story of Steve, who learned to see his son's fears in a new light. Ryan emphasizes the importance of understanding how our actions impact our children without waiting for a dramatic revelation. Dive into the insights of Terrence Real's book, which advocates for deeper connections in relationships. This discussion is filled with valuable tools for fostering empathy and love in parenting.
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ADVICE

Ask The Simple Question

  • Ask yourself, 'How do you think it feels?' before correcting or disciplining your child.
  • Consider how they experience your tone and actions to avoid unintentionally terrifying or shaming them.
ANECDOTE

Car Ride Revelation

  • Terrence Real's book recounts Steve's driving-while-son-carsick moment that revealed his child's fear of him.
  • That flash of seeing his son's fear moved Steve to tears and prompted real change in his behavior.
INSIGHT

The Empathy Blind Spot

  • It's easy for parents to forget what it's like to be a kid and how frightening our anger can be.
  • Recognizing that gap in perspective can break your heart and force you to change before it's too late.
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