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Mentioned in 14 episodes
Love Your Enemies
How Decent People Can Save America from the Culture of Contempt
Book • 2019
In 'Love Your Enemies,' Arthur C. Brooks argues that the current culture of contempt in America, fueled by divisive politics and social media, is not a path to lasting success.
Instead, he proposes a strategy based on bridging divides and mending relationships.
Brooks combines behavioral research, ancient wisdom, and his experience leading a top policy think tank to offer unconventional prescriptions for bringing America together.
He emphasizes that disagreement is essential for excellence and that civility and tolerance are insufficient goals; what matters most is how we choose to act towards those we disagree with.
Instead, he proposes a strategy based on bridging divides and mending relationships.
Brooks combines behavioral research, ancient wisdom, and his experience leading a top policy think tank to offer unconventional prescriptions for bringing America together.
He emphasizes that disagreement is essential for excellence and that civility and tolerance are insufficient goals; what matters most is how we choose to act towards those we disagree with.
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as a book exploring the concept of loving one's enemies.


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when discussing the importance of love and overcoming hatred.


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when discussing his work and writing.


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as one of the most articulate and entertaining speakers on the podcast.

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to highlight the importance of avoiding hyperbolic language in public discourse.


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, discusses anger and burnout and being motivated by compassion is very much a more effective way to approach this.


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as a book he wrote.


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, referencing research indicating that political talk across differences is beneficial for the immune system.

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as a book addressing the problem of contempt in the United States.

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while discussing social capital and its importance.


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as one of the great philosophical and political thinkers of our time.


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, discussing the four types of enemies defined in the book.


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as a book written together by Sharon Salzberg and Robert Thurman.


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as the last book 

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as the author of the book.


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as the book title of the episode.


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during their discussion on happiness and the culture of contempt.


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as the author of "Love Your Enemies" and for his insights on happiness.


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