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Mentioned in 18 episodes
Codependent no more
Book • 1987
In 'Codependent No More,' Melody Beattie provides a compassionate and insightful look into codependency, the concept of losing oneself in the name of helping another.
The book helps readers understand that they are powerless to change anyone but themselves and that caring for the self is where healing begins.
With instructive life stories, personal reflections, exercises, and self-tests, it offers a clear and achievable path to freedom and a lifetime of healing, hope, and happiness.
The book is particularly relevant for those who have lost sight of their own lives while tending to a loved one’s self-destructive behavior.
The book helps readers understand that they are powerless to change anyone but themselves and that caring for the self is where healing begins.
With instructive life stories, personal reflections, exercises, and self-tests, it offers a clear and achievable path to freedom and a lifetime of healing, hope, and happiness.
The book is particularly relevant for those who have lost sight of their own lives while tending to a loved one’s self-destructive behavior.
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Mentioned in 18 episodes
Mentioned by
Glennon Doyle ,
Abby Wambach , and Amanda Doyle as a book that helped them understand codependency.



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Breaking Codependency: Letting Life Happen with Melody Beattie
Mentioned by the speaker as one of the books that people read but remain stuck in narcissistic relationships.

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Changing Your Entire Mindset Toward Narcissistic People in Your Life: The Key to Maintaining Sanity
Recommended by
Mike Birbiglia who suggests Atsuko reads it to explore potential codependency issues.


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173. Atsuko Okatsuka Returns: The Dizzy Duo
Mentioned by Albert Mohler in the obituary segment, highlighting her significant contribution to the self-help movement and the popularization of the concept of codependency.

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Monday, March 17, 2025
Mentioned by
Mayim Bialik as a classic book in codependent literature, used as a guide for the episode.


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You Might Be Codependent. Learn How to Set Boundaries & Build Healthy Relationships!
Recommended by Brene Brown as a resource for dealing with codependency.

Jen Hatmaker: Marriage, Loneliness & Starting Over
Mentioned by multiple speakers throughout the podcast as a transformative book on codependency.

Codependence: How to Stop Controlling Others with Melody Beattie (Best Of)
Mentioned by Andrea while discussing definitions of codependency, quoting Melody's perspective from "Codependent No More."

56 - Codependency Deep Dive w/ Sarah Michaud, PsyD