The Terri Cole Show 319 Codependency + Over-Functioning
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Jul 6, 2021 Explore the nuances of high-functioning codependency and how overinvestment can harm your well-being. Discover the differences between over, under, and optional functioning, and why capable individuals often resist the codependency label. Terri Cole shares insights on the personal costs of over-functioning, particularly for those in helping professions. Learn practical steps to set healthier boundaries and practice self-care, allowing others to contribute and reducing resentment.
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High-Functioning Codependency Defined
- High-functioning codependency is when you over-invest in others' feelings and outcomes to your own detriment.
- This behavior blurs boundaries and harms your internal peace, finances, or health.
What Optimal Functioning Looks Like
- Optimal functioning means meeting obligations without over-promising or over-delivering.
- It lets you complete tasks while preserving time and energy for self-care.
The Over/Under Functioning Dynamic
- Under-functioning describes people who don't live to their potential and miss obligations.
- Under-functioners often pair with over-functioners, creating imbalanced relationships.




