How to Stay Calm No Matter What’s Happening | Sebene Selassie and Jeff Warren
Feb 14, 2024
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Join Sebene Selassie, a meditation instructor and author of 'You Belong,' alongside Jeff Warren, a writer and co-author of 'Meditation for Fidgety Skeptics.' They dive into the art of staying calm amid life’s chaos, sharing personal stories and insights. Discover how acceptance and mindfulness can transform challenges into opportunities for growth. The duo humorously explores attachment and non-attachment, emphasizing the importance of resilience in meditation. Their engaging reflection on balancing tranquility with distractions offers practical advice for navigating stress.
Equanimity is key to staying calm in any situation, cultivate it in daily life.
Acknowledging and exploring anger in a healthy manner leads to transformation and self-awareness.
Deep dives
Featuring a Masterclass in Equanimity
In this episode, the host introduces the concept of equanimity and the importance of staying calm no matter what's happening. Listeners get a masterclass in equanimity from two teachers through clips from a meditation retreat. The retreat, called meditation party, was a live version of previous episodes. The teachers, Jeff and Seb, discuss the significance of equanimity and offer insights on how to cultivate it in daily life.
Exploring the Nature of Urgency in Meditation
The host engages in a conversation with a listener who struggles with the urge to constantly check emails and attend to work-related matters during meditation. They discuss the balance between being present and feeling the need to respond to urgent matters. The listener explores the idea of jotting down thoughts to release the urgency, while the host emphasizes the importance of letting go of desires and focusing on being present without clinging to thoughts or interruptions.
Working Through Anger and Frustration
A listener shares their experience of being filled with anger and frustration related to work. They seek guidance on how to handle the anger and gain psychological insights through meditation. The teachers provide insights on working with anger, acknowledging it without judgment, and finding ways to express and explore anger in a healthy manner. They also discuss the balance between self-inquiry and therapy, highlighting the benefits of both approaches in understanding and transforming anger.
Developing Insights through Anger
The host and teachers delve deeper into the topic of anger and its significance in meditation. They highlight the value of allowing oneself to feel anger and expressing it in a cathartic way, while also acknowledging the role of self-awareness and curiosity in transforming anger. The importance of recognizing and responding to anger without guilt or shame is emphasized, leading to potential insights and shifts in perspective.
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A master class in equanimity. It’s the latest installment of our Meditation Party series. Live from Omega.
Sebene Selassie describes herself as a “writer, teacher, and immigrant-weirdo.” She teaches meditation on the Ten Percent Happier app and is the author of a great book called You Belong. She’s based in Brooklyn.
Jeff Warren is also a writer and a meditation teacher. He and Dan co-wrote the book, Meditation for Fidgety Skeptics. He also hosts the Consciousness Explorers podcast. He’s based in Toronto.
Tickets for the two more Meditation Party retreats this year at the Omega Institute in Rhinebeck, New York are available now. The last one was a blast. Come join us for both. One is in May, the other October.
For tickets to Dan Harris: Celebrating 10 Years of 10% Happier at Symphony Space: click here