The Wise Effort Show

Real Play: No Bad Parts and How to Do IFS With Dr. Richard Schwartz

Jun 26, 2023
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INSIGHT

IFS Map: Exiles, Managers, Firefighters

  • Internal Family Systems (IFS) maps inner parts as exiles, managers, and firefighters that protect against painful feelings.
  • Understanding these roles reframes self-problems as well-intentioned parts rather than moral failures.
ADVICE

Facilitate Dialogue Between Polarized Parts

  • Do identify polarized parts (e.g., restrictor vs. binger) and value each side like separate family members.
  • Facilitate dialogue between them so they can negotiate coexistence instead of battling.
ANECDOTE

Diana Lets The Binger Speak

  • Diana agrees to work with her binger first and Richard guides her to locate it in her body and notice her fear of it.
  • The fear part gives permission to explore the binger when reassured it won't be allowed to take over.
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