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The gift of failure

How the Best Parents Let Go So Their Children Can Succeed
Book • 2015
In 'The Gift of Failure,' Jessica Lahey argues that modern parenting's overprotectiveness can hinder children's development by denying them the opportunity to learn from their mistakes.

Lahey, drawing from her own parenting experience and years as an educator, provides practical advice on how parents can step back and allow their children to face failures and learn from them.

The book covers topics such as handling homework, report cards, social dynamics, and sports, emphasizing the importance of autonomy-supportive parenting over controlling parenting.

Lahey's approach is grounded in scientific research and personal anecdotes, offering a balanced and wise guide for parents, educators, and psychologists.

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Mentioned in 12 episodes

Mentioned by Rich Roll as the author of the New York Times bestselling book, The Gift of Failure, discussing the importance of embracing failure in children's development.
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Mentioned by Ryan Holiday as a book that explores the importance of allowing children to fail in order to learn and grow.
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Recommended by Ryan Holiday as a helpful book on parenting.
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Mentioned by Samantha Holiday when discussing how to praise children.
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Recommended by Megyn Kelly as a motivational memoir, sharing personal stories and tools to turn failure into a gift.
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Mentioned by Ryan Holiday as a parenting book emphasizing the importance of allowing children to experience failure.
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Recommended by Ryan Holiday as a book that reminds parents that by not letting children struggle, they are harming them.
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Mentioned by Ryan Holiday as a book that inspired his parenting philosophy.
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Recommended by Ryan Holiday , highlighting its impact on his parenting.
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Mentioned by Ryan Holiday as a book with a similar concept to his book, "The Obstacle Is the Way", but geared towards parenting.
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Mentioned by Jessica Lahey as her previous book, expressing fondness for it but highlighting her new book as her intended work.
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Mentioned by Rich Roll as a book that discusses the importance of embracing failure in learning and personal growth.
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Mentioned by Rich Roll in the context of dealing with a child's disappointment and the importance of learning from setbacks.
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Recommended by Ryan Holiday as a great book for parents and teachers on embracing failure.
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