The Daily Dad Ryan & Sam On Emotional Vaccination
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Nov 5, 2023 
Samantha Holiday, co-host of the podcast and wife of Ryan Holiday, brings her unique parenting insights to the discussion. They explore the delicate balance of expressing pride and relief in kids. The pair dives into fostering intrinsic motivation over external validation, highlighting how crucial self-reflection is in their children's growth. They also discuss the importance of nurturing independence and the significance of quiet moments amid household chaos, encouraging deeper emotional awareness in their kids' lives.
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Encourage Introspection over Direct Praise
- Instead of directly praising your child's achievements, ask them reflective questions.
- Encourage introspection by asking about their favorite parts or what they're most proud of.
Intrinsic Motivation over External Validation
- Ryan Holiday had to detach from external validation for his work to find intrinsic motivation.
- This detachment, although difficult, ultimately improved his work.
Children Shouldn't Earn Parental Pride
- Children shouldn't feel they need to earn their parents' pride.
- Give them space to feel their own emotions about their achievements first.
