Boundless Life

The Gift Of Failure, The Addiction Inoculation, Making Your Life Your Argument & More

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Sep 17, 2022
In this discussion, Jessica Lahey, a seasoned educator and author of 'The Gift of Failure' and 'The Addiction Inoculation,' dives into the complexities of parenting teenagers. She shares insights on how early exposure to substances can influence addiction risks. Jessica emphasizes the importance of allowing kids to experience failure as a stepping stone for growth. She also reflects on her personal journey with alcoholism and strategies to prevent substance abuse in children, stressing the need for open discussions and effective parenting techniques.
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ANECDOTE

Tripped Runner

  • Jessica Lahey's son was tripped during a cross-country race when she wasn't present.
  • He achieved a personal best and learned a valuable lesson about resilience and teamwork, a moment Lahey believes her presence would have disrupted.
ADVICE

Journaling Failures

  • Regularly reflect on daily failures and jot down notes about lessons learned.
  • This practice facilitates consecutive self-improvement, as exemplified by Ben Greenfield's guitar playing.
ADVICE

Praise Effort

  • Praise children's efforts and progress rather than innate abilities.
  • Focus on their growth in self-reliance and self-advocacy, rather than simply labeling them as 'smart'.
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