The Art of Manliness

#381: Why You Should Let Your Kids Fail

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Feb 20, 2018
Jessica Lahey, a teacher and author of "The Gift of Failure," shares insights on fostering resilience in children through failure. She critiques helicopter parenting and discusses how allowing kids to face setbacks nurtures independence and essential life skills. Lahey offers practical tips on guiding children’s friendships while emphasizing the significance of intrinsic learning motivation over grades. With personal anecdotes, she illustrates how embracing failure can pave the way for greater confidence and long-term success.
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ANECDOTE

Author's Personal Over-Parenting Realization

  • Jessica Lahey realized she was over-parenting when she noticed her own nine-year-old couldn't tie his shoes.
  • This led her to see the harm of over-parenting firsthand and inspired her book.
INSIGHT

Why Parenting Became Overprotective

  • Parenting has become more protective due to cultural shifts like fewer kids and older parents.
  • Media and technology also fuel anxiety, making parenting feel like an emergency.
INSIGHT

Directive Parenting Harms Motivation

  • Directive parenting undermines kids' intrinsic motivation and their ability to handle frustration.
  • Kids need autonomy to develop persistence and better learning skills.
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