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The Advice Trap

Book • 2020

Michael Bungay Stanier

In 'The Advice Trap', Michael Bungay Stanier builds on the principles of his previous book, 'The Coaching Habit', to help leaders and consultants avoid the pitfalls of premature and unsolicited advice-giving.

The book emphasizes the importance of taming the 'Advice Monster' within, which is driven by the beliefs that one must have the answer, be responsible for everything, and stay in control.

By staying curious longer and rushing into advice-giving more slowly, leaders can foster a more engaged team, promote organizational change, and create a curiosity-driven company culture.

The book provides practical tools and strategies for effective coaching, including the use of probing questions, mindfulness, and humility.

Mentioned by

Dave Stachowiak

Tim Schmaddebeck

Michael Bungay-Stanier

Shelley Johnson

Tim Schmaddebeck

Mentioned in 8 episodes

Mentioned by

Michael Hyatt

as a good book on coaching.

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Recommended by

Dave Stachowiak

as a related resource for improving listening skills.

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Mentioned by Michael Bungay Stanier as a sister book to The Coaching Habit that dives deeper into taming your advice monster.

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Mentioned by

Shelley Johnson

as a source of good questions for building better relationships.

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Mentioned by

Dave Stachowiak

as a book related to coaching and listening.

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Erwähnt von

Tim Schmaddebeck

im Zusammenhang mit dem Thema Coaching und dem Widerstand, Ratschläge zu geben.

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Von

Tim Schmaddebeck

erwähnt im Zusammenhang mit der Bedeutung von Kontext und Timing bei Ratschlägen.

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Recommended by

Dave Stachowiak

for its insights on providing helpful advice and avoiding the "advice trap."

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Mentioned by

Michael Bungay-Stanier

as his new book.

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Mentioned by

Dave Stachowiak

as a best-selling author whose book is discussed in the episode.

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Mentioned by the host as a relevant book on coaching techniques, emphasizing the importance of listening before offering advice.

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Recommended by

Dave Stachowiak

as a new book on avoiding the advice trap.

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Mentioned by

Leanne Hughes

regarding his concept of stage directions in coaching conversations.

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Mentioned by

Peter Schein

, highlighting how he developed that idea.

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Recommended by

Dave Stachowiak

as a book to help leaders become more coach-like and curious.

520: How to Inspire More Curiosity, with Shannon Minifie

Mentioned by

Dave Stachowiak

as having a new book out called "The Advice Trap", offering advice on giving suggestions.

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Mentioned by

Dave Stachowiak

as a book cautioning against giving unsolicited advice.

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Mentioned by

Pat Flynn

as a book addressing the tendency to offer advice prematurely.

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