

082 - Stop Giving Advice, Ask More Questions — with Michael Bungay Stanier
May 11, 2020
Michael Bungay Stanier, an Oxford graduate and author of the best-selling book "The Coaching Habit," champions curiosity-led leadership. He discusses the transformative power of asking questions rather than giving advice, emphasizing how curiosity enhances personal and professional relationships. Listeners learn effective questioning techniques, such as using 'what' and 'how' over 'why,' to foster meaningful dialogues. Michael also shares insights from his journey in writing, highlighting the importance of nurturing critical thinking and authenticity in leadership.
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Delay Advice
- Resist the urge to give immediate advice and stay curious longer.
- Ask clarifying questions to uncover the real challenge before offering solutions.
Surface Needs vs. True Challenges
- Clients often initially express a surface-level need, not the true challenge.
- Deep questioning reveals underlying motivations and desired outcomes.
The "And What Else" Technique
- Use "and what else" to encourage deeper exploration of client needs.
- This transforms transactional interactions into valuable partnerships.