Michael Bungay Stanier, bestselling author and founder of Box of Crayons, shares his secrets to irresistible conversations. Topics include the keys to becoming a better conversationalist, powerful questions for meaningful conversations, building rapport and successful networking, and the personality traits of great collaborators and networkers. Join the transformative weekend event in Columbus, Ohio and explore the significance of deep relationships and magnetic personalities. Learn about the power of slowing down, active listening, and the value of personal networks. Discover the benefits of journaling, learning from past relationships, and fighting for growth. Prioritize personal happiness, navigate conflicts, and master the power of body language and stagecraft for engaging conversations. Focus on building deep and fulfilling relationships for a vital and fulfilling life.

Michael Bungay Stanier: How to Work with (Almost) Anyone Michael Bungay Stanier is the author of eight books, including The Coaching Habit, which has sold more than a million copies and is the best-selling book on coaching this century. Most recently he wrote How to Begin, and back in 2011 he created and edited End Malaria, a book written in partnership with Seth Godin that raised more than $400k for Malaria No More. Michael is the founder Box of Crayons, a learning and development company that’s trained thousands of people around the world to be more coach-like. He has been featured in many publications including Harvard Business Review, Forbes, and Fast Company. His TEDx Talk on Taming Your Advice Monster has been viewed more than a million times. Michael's newest book is How to Work with (Almost) Anyone: Building the Best Possible Relationship*. Most leaders recognize the critical nature of healthy, peer relationships. Yet, few leaders lay an intentional foundation for success as those relationships start. In this episode, Michael and I discuss how to start with peers using the five questions in a Keystone Conversation. Key Points Nobody really like to say hello but everyone likes to be greeted. Make a decision to be the person that begins. Preparing thoughtful responses to the five questions in a Keystone Conversation will help you come to a dialogue in an authentic and vulnerable way. The responses themselves aren’t as critical as the process itself. By entering into a keystone conversation, you are laying the foundation for future dialogue and the best possible relationship. The five questions of a Keystone Conversation: The Amplify Question: What’s your best? The Steady Question: What are your practices and preferences? The Good Date Question: What can you learn from successful past relationships? The Bad Date Question: What can you learn from frustrating past relationships? The Repair Question: How will you fix it when things go wrong? Resources Mentioned Preorder Michael’s book at bestpossiblerelationship.com Bonus audio: Michael’s process for writing this book (12 minutes) Interview Notes Download my interview notes in PDF format (free membership required). Related Episodes How to Deal with Opponents and Adversaries, with Peter Block (episode 328) How to Involve Stakeholders in Decisions, with Eric Pliner (episode 586) How to Start a Big Leadership Role, with Carol Kauffman (episode 617) Discover More Activate your free membership for full access to the entire library of interviews since 2011, searchable by topic. To accelerate your learning, uncover more inside Coaching for Leaders Plus.

Michael Bungay Stanier, author of The Coaching Habit, discusses becoming more coach-like, focusing on asking insightful questions, giving autonomy, and avoiding 'why' questions. Emphasizes the power of silence and body language in effective coaching conversations.

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Michael Bungay Stanier, an expert in working with people, shares 5 questions to work with almost anyone. Topics include the importance of keystone conversations, asking the amplify question, self-reflection and preparation, the power of conversations in building relationships, and unique perspectives and encouragement.

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Discover practical tools for handling workplace conflicts with insights from bestselling author Michael Bungay Stanier. Learn how to improve emotional intelligence, manage conflict, and navigate workplace dynamics effectively. Turn workplace tensions into opportunities for growth and collaboration through open communication and mutual respect.

In this episode, Michael Bungay Stanier explains keystone conversations and why this is vitally important in building the best possible relationships, both at work and in your personal life. Discover how these seemingly small conversations can lead to stronger, more collaborative, and more fulfilling connections. You’ll also learn: How any working or personal relationship can be made better Why it takes courage to initiate the invitation to work on a relationship that is important to you The 3 core elements of a relationship: safety, vitality, repairability Defining keystone conversations and why they’re so important in improving relationships How there is an important tension between safety and vitality How to look at problems in growth made instead of problem mode Why it’s important to make it safe to ask questions The importance of actively engaging in relationships so it doesn’t stagnate To learn more, click here.See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

Michael Bungay Stanier, author of 'The Coaching Habit,' discusses the art of strengthening working relationships in his new book. He emphasizes the importance of safety, vitality, and repairability in building these relationships. Keystone conversations, focusing on effective teamwork, are also highlighted. Stanier's practical approach aims to enhance team dynamics, personal interactions, and workplace productivity.

Renowned relationship experts Esther Perel, Michael Bungay Stanier, and Gary John Bishop discuss maintaining desire, the power of good questions, individuality in relationships, and personal responsibility. They emphasize authenticity, communication, and self-awareness for fulfilling partnerships.