
The Happiness Lab with Dr. Laurie Santos
You might think you know what it takes to lead a happier life… more money, a better job, or Instagram-worthy vacations. You’re dead wrong. Yale professor Dr. Laurie Santos has studied the science of happiness and found that many of us do the exact opposite of what will truly make our lives better. Based on the psychology course she teaches at Yale -- the most popular class in the university’s 300-year history -- Laurie will take you through the latest scientific research and share some surprising and inspiring stories that will change the way you think about happiness.
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Oct 30, 2023 • 25min
Ask for Help... and Spread Happiness
Jia Jiang, an entrepreneur who conquered his fear of rejection by seeking it out for 100 days, joins the discussion on the importance of asking for help. He shares how embracing vulnerability not only improves personal happiness but also strengthens social bonds. Jiang recounts surprising moments, like successfully requesting Olympic ring-shaped donuts, showcasing the kindness of others. The conversation reveals that most people enjoy helping, challenging the notion that asking for assistance is a sign of weakness.

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Oct 23, 2023 • 29min
The Introvert's Guide to Extroversion
Jessica Pan, author of "Sorry I'm Late, I Didn't Want to Come," dives into her personal journey of overcoming severe introversion. She shares the emotional challenges of social gatherings and reveals her year-long experiment to embrace extroversion. Jessica discusses the psychological benefits of stepping out of comfort zones and how engaging with strangers can boost happiness. Through her experiences and humor, she illustrates the joy that can come from genuine connections and the transformation from a timid introvert to a more outgoing individual.

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Oct 16, 2023 • 26min
Text a Friend... Right Now!
In a heartfelt discussion, Andy Salkind, a British author who bravely shares his journey with depression, emphasizes the life-saving impact of reaching out to friends through just a simple text. Peggy Liu, a professor specializing in social connection, reveals how common misconceptions can hinder our relationships. They explore the powerful effects of reconnecting with friends, highlighting that even a quick check-in can uplift spirits and strengthen bonds, all while overcoming the barriers of emotional honesty.

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Oct 9, 2023 • 30min
How to Make Friends and Compliment People
Troy Hawke, a comedic character created by Milo McCabe, entertains with his charm and mastery of compliments on the streets. He shares how genuine compliments can bridge gaps and enhance happiness, drawing inspiration from his 1930s movie star persona. Alongside scientist Xuan Zhao, who emphasizes the psychological impact of appreciation, they explore the art of sincere compliments and the barriers that hinder expression. The duo highlights how kindness fosters connections, making the world a happier place one compliment at a time.

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Oct 2, 2023 • 29min
Grover’s Super Solution to Self-Talk
Join Grover, the lovable blue monster from Sesame Street, as he helps Dr. Laurie Santos tackle the tricky terrain of self-talk. The duo dives into the power of positive internal dialogue and how it can uplift our mental well-being. They explore fun techniques like superhero self-talk and the significance of self-compassion. Grover shares tips on how to replace harsh criticism with kindness, making the case for a happiness box filled with uplifting treasures. Get ready for a joy-filled conversation about nurturing resilience and fostering emotional health!

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Sep 25, 2023 • 29min
Big Bird Has Big Feelings
Big Bird, the iconic 8-foot tall character from Sesame Street, joins therapist Dr. Joy Harden Bradford to discuss navigating the stormy seas of emotions. They explore how to manage feelings of disappointment, using creative tools like the glitter jar for emotional regulation. Big Bird learns that acknowledging all feelings, even the tough ones, is vital for personal growth. They also discuss the role of caregivers in supporting children's emotional health and share fun strategies to help kids express their feelings in healthy ways.

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Sep 18, 2023 • 32min
Dr Laurie and Sesame Street: Abby Cadabby and the Magic of Gratitude
Join Abby Cadabby from Sesame Street as she tackles her grumpy day with a sprinkle of gratitude magic. Discover how teaching happiness and emotional skills can improve well-being from childhood to adulthood. The podcast highlights the transformative power of gratitude, even in challenging moments, and shares practical tips for families to foster positivity. Laugh along as Abby’s chaotic morning turns around, showcasing the importance of recognizing kindness and building connections through gratitude.

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Sep 12, 2023 • 53min
Build the Life You Want... Advice from Arthur Brooks and Oprah
Oprah Winfrey, a media mogul and philanthropist, teams up with Arthur Brooks, a Harvard social scientist and author, to share insights from their collaborative book on happiness. They discuss the profound impact of overcoming personal challenges on happiness, the importance of social connections, and the transformative power of altruism. Arthur shares his son's meaningful journey in the Marine Corps, while Oprah emphasizes removing mirrors from our homes to foster a deeper connection with others. Their engaging conversation inspires listeners to actively cultivate joy and fulfillment.

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Aug 7, 2023 • 32min
Laurie Has Fun... Part 2 ICYMI
A listener's journey sparks a conversation about rediscovering fun amidst a busy life. Topics include the joy of stepping out of comfort zones, transforming challenges into playful experiences, and the freedom of embracing being a beginner. Personal anecdotes reveal the thrill of learning new skills, like surfing, and celebrating the process over the outcome. The concept of a 'fun audit' encourages reflection on what truly brings joy, fostering personal growth and deeper connections in everyday life.

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Aug 7, 2023 • 37min
Laurie Has Fun... Part 1 ICYMI
Listener Natalie seeks to infuse more fun into her running club's routine, inspired by a quest for joy. The discussion dives into rediscovering the playful spirit of childhood amidst adult responsibilities. Personal anecdotes highlight the importance of authentic enjoyment and connecting with others. Insights reveal how to find joy in everyday experiences and cultivate gratitude. The transformative power of simple moments, laughter, and mindfulness is celebrated, reminding us that joy can often be found in the ordinary.
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