Psychotherapist Lori Gottlieb and Steven Bartlett discuss topics like the best age to get married, dating app pickiness, financial differences in relationships, and gender expectations. They tackle red flags in first dates, the impact of earning more in a relationship, and the link between age at marriage and divorce risk.

Therapist and author, Lori Gottlieb, challenges the current approach to mental health. She discusses the negative consequences of excessive mental health awareness, the importance of personal growth in therapy, and the impact social media has on vulnerability. The podcast also explores defense mechanisms in therapy, navigating change in relationships, and the role of therapy in personal growth.

Ryan speaks with Lori Gottlieb about the profound effect that stories have on our lives, why we are all unreliable narrators, how we can make real steps toward positive change by practicing self-compassion, understanding other peoples’ experiences by listening to their stories, and more.Lorr Gottlieb is a physiotherapist, writer, speaker, and podcast host whose work focuses on the role that stories and storytelling take in shaping our mental landscape. She obtained an undergraduate degree at Stanford University and a Masters of Clinical Psychology from Pepperdine University, and she is a licensed Marriage and Family Therapist. She published the New York Times bestseller, Maybe You Should Talk to Someone in 2019, which she repurposed into a journal version in 2022 titled Maybe You Should Talk to Someone: The Journal. She also writes the weekly “Dear Therapist” advice column for The Atlantic and is the co-host of the iHeart Radio podcast "Dear Therapists." Her TED Talk was one of the top most-watched talks of 2019. Her work can be found on her website lorigottlieb.com.✉️ Sign up for the Daily Stoic email: https://dailystoic.com/dailyemail🏛 Check out the Daily Stoic Store for Stoic inspired products, signed books, and more.📱 Follow us: Instagram, Twitter, YouTube, TikTok, FacebookSee Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

Psychotherapist Lori Gottlieb discusses the importance of setting and maintaining boundaries in relationships. She shares insights on dealing with peer pressure, mastering difficult conversations, and setting early relationship goals. The podcast explores the positive impact of active listening and how to navigate relationship triggers. Uncover the psychology behind the urge to share stories and the importance of finding a balance between desired traits in a partner. Discover the benefits of journaling for self-reflection and understanding the stages of grief in relationships.

In adulthood, many of us are forced to recalibrate our relationship with joy. As responsibilities multiply exponentially, time grows limited, and challenges mount, it becomes harder to make time for fun, let alone remember what it feels like. As we explore the key components of happiness—pleasure, joy, and satisfaction—we ask the foundational question: What really brings me joy?In this special-edition, bonus episode of How to Build a Happy Life, the psychotherapist and Atlantic contributing writer Lori Gottlieb demystifies one of the vital components of a happy life: enjoyment. Gottlieb believes that we not only find it challenging to make time for day-to-day enjoyment, but also struggle to identify what it should feel like.This episode was produced by Rebecca Rashid and hosted by Arthur Brooks. Editing by A.C. Valdez. Fact-check by Ena Alvarado. Sound design by Michael Raphael.Be part of How to Build a Happy Life. Write to us at howtopodcast@theatlantic.com or leave us a voicemail at 925.967.2091.Music by Trevor Kowalski (“Daydream in Silver”), Stationary Sign (“Loose in the Park”), and Spectacles Wallet and Watch (“Last Pieces”).Click here to listen to every full-length episode in the series. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Lori Gottlieb, a renowned psychotherapist and bestselling author of 'Maybe You Should Talk to Someone,' dives into the complexities of modern relationships. She discusses the pitfalls of unrealistic expectations fueled by social media, emphasizing the importance of authentic connections over initial chemistry. Lori introduces the concepts of 'idiot compassion' versus 'wise compassion,' offering insight into breaking negative relationship cycles. She also shares tips on navigating in-law dynamics, setting boundaries, and the power of open communication in cultivating healthy, lasting love.

Lori Gottlieb, a therapist and bestselling author of "Maybe You Should Talk to Someone," shares her insights on the narratives we create about ourselves. She highlights the transformative power of storytelling and the need to recognize our inner unreliable narrators. Relationships, she argues, should be viewed as a dance focused on personal growth rather than changing others. Gottlieb also emphasizes the importance of finding the right therapist to help edit our life stories, encouraging listeners to embrace change for true happiness.

“If we don’t rewrite our story, we relive our story.”Lori Gottlieb is a psychotherapist and the author of "Maybe You Should Talk to Someone." In today's interview, she discusses tools to help you heal from a difficult past, the importance of "wise compassion" when dealing with those you love, and why you should look yourself in the mirror for 60 seconds every day.Mel Robbins: The “Secret” Mindset Habit to Building Confidence and Overcoming Scarcity: https://link.chtbl.com/970-podDr. Joe Dispenza on Healing the Body and Transforming the Mind: https://link.chtbl.com/826-podMaster Your Mind and Defy the Odds with David Goggins: https://link.chtbl.com/715-pod Get more from Lewis! Pre-order my new book Make Money EasyGet The Greatness Mindset audiobook on SpotifyText Lewis AIYouTubeInstagramWebsiteTiktokFacebookX

Therapist and bestselling author Lori Gottlieb explains how changing our personal narrative can lead to happiness. She discusses the stages of change, the importance of relationships, and finding a good therapist. Through her experiences, she emphasizes the power of being aware of our personal narrative and being willing to edit our story.

Lori Gottlieb, a psychotherapist and author of the best-selling book "Maybe You Should Talk to Someone," joins host Arthur Brooks to unravel the complexities of joy. They discuss how to identify personal sources of happiness, emphasizing the importance of emotional management and self-reflection. The conversation examines the multifaceted nature of happiness, the connection between suffering and gratitude, and the vital role of daily connections. Listeners are encouraged to embrace both joy and sorrow for a more fulfilling life.