On Purpose with Jay Shetty

Lori Gottlieb: 7 Answers to Dating Questions You’re Afraid to Ask & How to Break Free from Relationship Timelines

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Nov 18, 2024
Lori Gottlieb, a renowned psychotherapist and bestselling author of 'Maybe You Should Talk to Someone,' dives into the complexities of modern relationships. She discusses the pitfalls of unrealistic expectations fueled by social media, emphasizing the importance of authentic connections over initial chemistry. Lori introduces the concepts of 'idiot compassion' versus 'wise compassion,' offering insight into breaking negative relationship cycles. She also shares tips on navigating in-law dynamics, setting boundaries, and the power of open communication in cultivating healthy, lasting love.
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ADVICE

Self-Reflection in Dating

  • Examine why past relationships haven't worked.
  • Reflect on your role in those dynamics to avoid repeating patterns.
INSIGHT

Unfinished Business in Relationships

  • We often date and marry people who represent our "unfinished business."
  • Unconsciously, we are drawn to familiar relationship dynamics, even if unhealthy.
ADVICE

Rushing vs. Slowing Down in Relationships

  • Slow down and evaluate the relationship instead of rushing due to perceived timelines.
  • Consider couples therapy to understand yourself and your partner better.
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