How To Handle Literally Anything | Sebene Selassie and Jeff Warren
Apr 24, 2024
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Meditation experts Sebene Selassie and Jeff Warren discuss work/life balance, equanimity, and the cliché of everything happening for a reason. They explore meditation vs. napping, handling challenges through acceptance, and embracing trust and surrender in life's unpredictability.
Trusting life through challenges fosters personal growth and spiritual development.
Balancing work, family, and well-being involves acceptance, alignment with values, and equanimity.
Cultivating resilience by surrendering to circumstances while caring for oneself leads to inner peace.
Deep dives
Navigating Life's Challenges with a Trust Life Mantra
In the podcast episode, the hosts and guests delve into the concept of 'trust life' amidst challenges. The idea revolves around accepting life's difficulties and embracing them as part of personal growth and a mysterious life journey. Trusting life is depicted as a way to navigate through hardships with grace and learning, understanding that challenges can serve as teachers for personal and spiritual development. The discussion emphasizes the importance of finding meaning and coherence in life's struggles, leading to a deeper connection with oneself and the universe.
Balancing Work, Family, and Inner Peace
The podcast features a voicemail about balancing the demands of work, family, and personal well-being. The listener expresses the desire to merge moments of calm and mindfulness with the chaotic nature of daily responsibilities. The conversation touches on acceptance and commitment therapy principles, suggesting a mindset shift towards accepting difficult times and aligning actions with personal values. Setting intentions and dedicating daily activities to benefit all beings are presented as tools to find equanimity amidst life's busyness, enhancing one's ability to flow between intense planning and softness.
Cultivating Resilience and Softness in the Face of Adversity
The hosts share personal experiences and strategies for cultivating resilience and maintaining softness in challenging times. Acknowledging life's complexities, the discussion focuses on surrendering to circumstances while proactively taking care of oneself physically and emotionally. By accepting the flow of life, practicing surrender, and understanding individual fear responses, individuals can navigate hardships with a blend of acceptance, gratitude, and understanding. The dialogue underscores the value of connecting with inner peace and navigating life's fluctuations with a mindful and open-hearted approach.
Intention Setting and Rewiring Selfishness
Setting intentions and adopting in-the-moment practices can help transform challenging periods. The practice of setting intentions before tasks, like a neuroscientist's routine, can combat default modes of selfish thinking. This intentional mindset aims at benefiting all beings and challenging self-centered tendencies, contributing to personal growth and mindfulness.
Dealing with Constant Turnover of Thoughts
The podcast addresses strategies for managing obsessive and repetitive thoughts, offering insights from a diverse range of practices. Techniques like stirring and stilling, combined with movement before meditation, can help navigate intense rumination and emotions. Implementing actions to break the cycle of overthinking, such as using mantras or engaging in walking meditation, can provide a more balanced approach to addressing persistent thought patterns.
Debating the cliche: Does everything happen for a reason? Plus, the Meditation Party crew tackles equanimity, work/life balance, and meditation vs napping.
Sebene Selassie describes herself as a “writer, teacher, and immigrant-weirdo.” She teaches meditation on the ten percent happier app and is the author of a great book called You Belong. She’s based in Brooklyn.
Jeff Warren is also a writer and a meditation teacher. He and Dan co-wrote the book, Meditation for Fidgety Skeptics. He also hosts the Consciousness Explorers podcast. He’s based in Toronto.
If you want to be part of the show, please call in with a question or comment. The number is 508-656-0540. Or you can email us with a voice memo at podcast@tenpercent.com with a voice memo.
Tickets for the two more Meditation Party retreats this year at the Omega Institute in Rhinebeck, New York are available now. The last one was a blast. Come join us for both. One is in May, the other October.