Steven Bartlett sits down with dating coach and behavioural scientist, Logan Ury. They discuss topics, such as modern dating, attachment theory, changing dating patterns, and the maths of choosing a partner. They also delve into digital body language, the importance of emotional vulnerability, and the trend towards authenticity on social media. The speaker reflects on their own dating experience, emphasizes the value of fundamental qualities in a relationship, and provides tips for creating an engaging Hinge profile. They also discuss the concept of great sex and recommend the guest's book.

Logan Ury is a Behavioural Scientist turned dating coach who recently authored the bestselling book, How to Not Die Alone. Logan’s also the Director of Relationship Science at the dating app Hinge where she leads a research team dedicated to helping people find love. In our conversation we discuss all things relationships and dating including how to apply behavioural science insights to the world of dating, what makes the perfect date and how to be a better life partner. 🔗 CONNECT WITH LOGAN 📕 How Not To Die Alone 🐦 Twitter 📸 Instagram 💻 Website🎲 Logan's Three Tendencies Quiz 🔗 CONNECT WITH ALI🎥 YouTube Channel🐦 Twitter📸 Instagram💻 Website👥 LinkedinFind the show notes and the transcript on the website: https://aliabdaal.com/podcast/Sponsored by FabulousFabulous is the #1 self-care app to help you build better habits and achieve your goals. Fabulous makes it easy for anyone to develop and stick to healthy habits thanks to science-backed daily routines; as a result, you will feel healthier, fulfilled, and more productive. Get 25% off Fabulous Premium by going to https://thefab.co/deepdive.📚Check out my New York Times Bestselling book Feel-Good Productivity!Amazon WebsiteLeave a reviewIf you enjoy listening to the podcast, please do leave a 5-star review on Apple Podcasts - even one line helps! You can also Tweet @AliAbdaal with any feedback, thoughts from the lessons you've learnt from the episodes and we can thank you personally for tuning in 🙏Want to start your own podcast? We use Transistor! https://go.aliabdaal.com/transistorCheck out the episode on the Deep Dive YouTube Channel.See privacy policy at https://transistor.fm/privacy

As Season 2 of the podcast draws to an end, I look back at some of the best moments from the season, including conversations with Dr Julie Smith, James Hoffmann, Logan Ury, Julian Hearn, Kharma Medic and Oliver Burkeman. 📣 End of season survey to hear your thoughts on the podcast, it takes 3 mins :) - https://aliabdaal.typeform.com/to/cmuTQTCG00:00 Intro 02:04 Lessons in meaningful living14.36 Lessons in entrepreneurship27:08 Lessons in dating41:20 Lessons in side hustles56:01 Lessons in time management01:03:37 Lessons in goal settingFULL EPISODES ⬇️S2 E1 Dr Julie SmithS2 E10 James HoffmannS2 E5 Logan UryS2 E7 Julian HearnS2 E11 Kharma MedicS2 E2 Oliver Burkeman 🔗 CONNECT WITH ALI 🎥 YouTube Channel 🐦 Twitter 📸 Instagram 💻 Website 👥 Linkedin 📚 RESOURCES MENTIONEDWhy Has Nobody Told Me This Before? by Dr Julie Smith - https://geni.us/vGXlBThe E-Myth by Michael. E Gerber - https://geni.us/h5766xHow To Not Die Alone by Logan Ury - https://geni.us/QMbAAHuel: Complete Food - https://uk.huel.comFour-Thousand Weeks: Embrace Your Limits, Change Your Life by Oliver Burkeman - https://geni.us/kyc9DjvFind the show notes and the transcript on the website: https://aliabdaal.com/podcast/Sponsored by BrilliantThis episode is kindly supported by Brilliant, the best way to learn maths, science and computer science online. Brilliant focuses on helping you learn through interactive courses that work to develop your intuition and first principles knowledge, rather than just memorising methods and facts. Sign up at https://brilliant.org/deepdive - the first 200 people will receive 20% off the annual premium subscription.Sponsored by Curiosity StreamThis episode is kindly supported by Curiosity Stream, the leading streaming subscription platform that gives you access to thousands of documentaries and non-fiction titles. Curiosity stream also support independent creators on their platform Nebula which is run by me and other creators where you can access exclusive content including the original episodes of Deep Dive which you won't find anywhere else. You also get early, ad free access to mine and a bunch of other creators videos. Sign up at https://curiositystream.com/deepdive and you'll get 42% off annual plans as well as FREE ACCESS to Nebula as part of the bundle.📚Check out my New York Times Bestselling book Feel-Good Productivity!Amazon WebsiteLeave a reviewIf you enjoy listening to the podcast, please do leave a 5-star review on Apple Podcasts - even one line helps! You can also Tweet @AliAbdaal with any feedback, thoughts from the lessons you've learnt from the episodes and we can thank you personally for tuning in 🙏Want to start your own podcast? We use Transistor! https://go.aliabdaal.com/transistorCheck out the episode on the Deep Dive YouTube Channel.See privacy policy at https://transistor.fm/privacy

Logan Ury, a behavioral scientist at the dating app Hinge, says making dating decisions based on initial chemistry alone is a losing battle. In this episode, dating coach Damon Hoffman speaks with Ury about her book, How to Not Die Alone.Learn more about sponsor message choices: podcastchoices.com/adchoicesNPR Privacy Policy

In this insightful conversation, Logan Ury, a behavioral scientist and dating coach at Hinge, shares her expertise on finding love intentionally. She emphasizes the importance of viewing dating as a skill to develop, offering actionable tips on meeting people and navigating first dates. Logan discusses 'dating blind spots' and how tech influences modern dating dynamics. With insights applicable to any age, her practical advice aims to help listeners build fulfilling long-term relationships. Her book, 'How to Not Die Alone,' is a must-read for those seeking connection.

Dating is a relatively recent phenomenon in human history. Given that, it shouldn't come as a surprise that many people aren't sure of the best way to go about it, especially since the rise of modern technology and dating apps has made an already murky landscape even more confusing.If you feel like you could use some expert, research-backed guidance to navigating this world, enter today's guest, Logan Ury. Logan is a behavioral scientist turned dating coach, the Director of Relationship Science for the Hinge dating app, and the author of How to Not Die Alone: The Surprising Science That Will Help You Find Love. Today on the show, Logan explains the three dating tendencies and the three types of attachment styles that can influence, and potentially sabotage, your ability to get into a healthy relationship. She shares the easiest thing you can do to be more successful in making connections on the dating apps, and the criteria to use for figuring out how to best meet people in person. Logan then gets into how to design a good first date, and what to tell the other person if the date doesn't go well, rather than ghosting them. She also makes the case for why you shouldn't be over reliant on feeling the proverbial spark when deciding whether to see someone again. We end our conversation with tips on breaking up with someone you've been dating for awhile.Resources Related to the PodcastLogan's 3 dating tendencies quizOptimal stoppingPeak-end ruleAoM Podcast #707: Did You Pick the Right Partner?AoM Podcast #584: How to Avoid Falling in Love With the Wrong PersonAoM Podcast #474: The Surprises of Romantic AttractionAoM Podcast #559: How to Handle Difficult ConversationsAoM Article: How to Make a Great Last ImpressionAoM Article: How to Ask Better Questions on a First DateConnect With Logan UryLogan's WebsiteLogan on InstagramLogan on Twitter

Logan Ury is the Director of Relationship Science at Hinge, a Harvard-trained behavioural scientist and an author.Modern dating is difficult. Thankfully Logan has access to all the data from Hinge and can conduct as many studies as she wants on trends and preferences from thousands of people in and out of relationships.Expect to learn why an intentional approach to dating seems like a turn-off but is a very smart strategy, why you should start looking to settle down after dating 30% of your partners, what the data tells us are the most important rules for constructing a successful dating profile, why chasing The Spark is a recipe for disaster, how to break up with someone, how to get over heartbreak and much more...Sponsors:Join the Modern Wisdom Community to connect with me & other listeners - https://modernwisdom.locals.com/Get 20% discount on everything from Lucy at https://uk.lucy.co/ (UK) or https://lucy.co/ (US) (use code: MW20)Get 20% discount & free shipping on your Lawnmower 4.0 at https://www.manscaped.com/ (use code MODERNWISDOM)Get 5 Free Travel Packs, Free Liquid Vitamin D and Free Shipping from Athletic Greens at https://athleticgreens.com/modernwisdom (discount automatically applied)Extra Stuff:Buy How Not To Die Alone - https://amzn.to/3v0KY1J Check out Logan's website - https://www.loganury.com/ Get my free Reading List of 100 books to read before you die → https://chriswillx.com/books/To support me on Patreon (thank you): https://www.patreon.com/modernwisdom-Get in touch.Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/chriswillxTwitter: https://www.twitter.com/chriswillxYouTube: https://www.youtube.com/modernwisdompodcastEmail: https://chriswillx.com/contact/  Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

How the hell do grown ups date and make friends? Behavioral scientist turned dating coach, Logan Ury is here to help us make dating and meeting new friends easier: how to identify what you really want; why we should stop searching for “the spark”; why we keep going after the same people that are wrong for us; how to talk to our kids about their first love experiences; why we need to have “other significant others”; and the eight questions you should ask yourself after meeting anyone new.  About Logan: Logan Ury is a behavioral scientist turned dating coach and the author of the bestselling dating book How to Not Die Alone: The Surprising Science That Will Help You Find Love. She works as Hinge’s Director of Relationship Science, conducting research on modern dating. She runs an online community through her weekly newsletter — Logan's Love Letter. She studied psychology at Harvard and ran Google’s behavioral science team, the Irrational Lab. She lives in the Bay Area with her husband Scott. TW: @loganuryIG: @loganury To learn more about listener data and our privacy practices visit: https://www.audacyinc.com/privacy-policy Learn more about your ad choices. Visit https://podcastchoices.com/adchoices

Logan Ury, a Harvard-trained behavioral scientist and dating expert, shares her insights on finding love in the digital age. She discusses the challenges dating apps create, the importance of shifting relationship standards, and encourages a 'slow burn' approach to attraction over instant chemistry. Logan also emphasizes the struggles faced by Gen Z in dating and the need for open conversations. Listeners learn the value of self-awareness and vulnerability in fostering genuine connections, making for a transformative conversation on modern romance.

Logan Ury helps Glennon’s former husband and co-parent, Craig Melton, navigate the wild world of dating as a grown up: How to identify your patterns that aren’t working for you; how to know if something’s really a deal breaker; why dating in your twenties is like “start-up” while dating later in life is a “merger”; an honest audit of Craig’s online dating profile; how to ensure you’re meeting who you want to meet; and how Craig factors whether or not Glennon and Abby will like who he’s dating. About Logan: Logan Ury is a behavioral scientist turned dating coach and the author of the bestselling dating book How to Not Die Alone: The Surprising Science That Will Help You Find Love. She works as Hinge’s Director of Relationship Science, conducting research on modern dating. She runs an online community through her weekly newsletter — Logan's Love Letter. She studied psychology at Harvard and ran Google’s behavioral science team, the Irrational Lab. She lives in the Bay Area with her husband Scott. TW: @loganuryIG: @loganuryIG: @craigmelton14 To learn more about listener data and our privacy practices visit: https://www.audacyinc.com/privacy-policy Learn more about your ad choices. Visit https://podcastchoices.com/adchoices