Deep Dive with Ali Abdaal

How to Not Die Alone - A Dating Experts Guide

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Feb 14, 2022
Logan Ury, a behavioral scientist and dating coach, dives into the intricacies of modern dating. She shares insights from her book, emphasizing the importance of authenticity in dating profiles. Listeners learn how to shift from seeking the 'perfect' partner to fostering genuine connections. Ury discusses the significance of self-awareness in relationships, offering strategies to enhance communication and intimacy. Plus, she addresses the challenges of navigating dating apps and the need for clarity in intentions, providing valuable tools for potential life partners.
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ADVICE

Dating Like a Scientist

  • Run dating experiments like a scientist, testing hypotheses and analyzing results.
  • For example, if you're a maximizer, try going on third dates even if the second wasn't amazing.
ADVICE

Optimize Your Dating Profile

  • Craft a dating profile that tells a story, showcasing variety and authenticity.
  • Include clear photos, activities you love, and hooks to start conversations.
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Honesty on Dating Apps

  • Be upfront about seeking a relationship on dating apps to attract like-minded people.
  • Hinge's experiment showed increased messages from those also wanting relationships.
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