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Mentioned in 53 episodes
Come as you are
the surprising new science that will transform your sex life
Book • 2015
In 'Come as You Are', Emily Nagoski and Blanca González Villegas delve into the latest scientific research on human sexuality, offering insights and practical advice to improve sexual well-being.
The book addresses various aspects of sex, including desire, arousal, and the complexities of sexual response, aiming to help readers understand and enhance their sexual experiences.
The book addresses various aspects of sex, including desire, arousal, and the complexities of sexual response, aiming to help readers understand and enhance their sexual experiences.
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Mentioned in 53 episodes
Mentioned by 

while discussing research on female sexuality and the prerequisites for eroticism in women.


Steven Bartlett

969 snips
The Gottman Doctors: "Women Tend to Be More Unhappily Married", 96% Of Non-Cuddlers Have An Awful Sex Life & Why One Night Stands Are Dangerous!
Recommended by Julie Gottman for reviewing research on women's eroticism.

676 snips
Most Replayed Moment: The Gottman Doctors Guide to Better Sex and Stronger Connections
Mentioned by 

as a favorite book on maintaining a great sexual relationship.


Ali Abdaal

574 snips
The Science Behind Why Relationships Last Or Fail - Drs John & Julie Gottman
Mentioned by 

as a resource for understanding female sexuality.


Logan Ury

463 snips
How to Not Die Alone - A Dating Experts Guide
Recommended by 

for understanding the dynamics of sex in relationships.


Diana Chapman

447 snips
#130 Diana Chapman: Trusting Your Instincts
Mentioned by 

as the third guest, discussing different kinds of sex and the importance of pleasure.


Shane Parrish

342 snips
#140 TKP Insights: Sex and Relationships
Mentioned by 

as the author of "Come as You Are", a book with a chapter on stress and emotion processing.


Dan Harris

131 snips
For the Burned Out, Fried, and Exhausted | Emily & Amelia Nagoski
Mencionado por el Dr. César Velasco como una excelente lectura sobre sexualidad femenina.

122 snips
#322. Dr. Cesar Velasco - Tener Mejor Sexo, Infidelidad, Amor Moderno y Salud Mental
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as 

's first book and a New York Times bestseller.


Tami Simon


Emily Nagoski

100 snips
Emily Nagoski, PhD: Pleasure Is the Measure: How to Have Sex You Enjoy
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as a brilliant book to start with for learning about sex and the body.

Hannah Witton

99 snips
Sex, Relationships and Everything in Between - Hannah Witton
Mentioned by 

as an amazing book about sex.


Shane Parrish

99 snips
#66 Dr. Emily Nagoski: Pleasure is the Measure
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in the context of a circular model of sexual response in women.

Sharon Parish

93 snips
#259 - Women's sexual health: Why it matters, what can go wrong, and how to fix it | Sharon Parish, M.D.
Mentioned by 

as a book to help with communication in marriage.


John Delony

36 snips
I Only Feel Loved by My Wife When We Have Sex
Mentioned by 

as today's expert on the podcast.


Andy Tegel

31 snips
Dear LK: I'm happily married but hate our sex life. Should I ask for a divorce?
Mentioned by 

as the best book on female sexuality and a great educational resource.


John Delony

30 snips
How Do I Protect My Kids From My Mentally Unstable Ex-Wife?
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as an author who will be at HowToAcademy.

Vas Christodoulou

28 snips
Mo Gawdat & Alice Law - A Guide to Stress-Free Living
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as a source of information on sexual desire and pleasure.

Natassia Miller

24 snips
28 | Natassia Miller, Sexologist, Founder & CEO of Wonderlust: Communication & Self-Discovery are the Bedrock of Sexual Wellness
Recommended by 

to address self-judgment and doubt during intimacy.


Esther Perel

24 snips
Mating in Captivity, Esther Perel
Mentioned by Chris when discussing the dual control model of arousal.

19 snips
Arousal: The Dual Control Model
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as the award-winning author of Come As You Are and Come Together, and co-author of Burnout.

Alayna Joy

19 snips
Emily Nagoski on What Happy Couples Know That Others Don’t