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The Mel Robbins Podcast

The Only Dating Advice You'll Ever Need

Dec 9, 2024
Logan Ury, a Harvard-trained behavioral scientist and dating expert, shares her insights on finding love in the digital age. She discusses the challenges dating apps create, the importance of shifting relationship standards, and encourages a 'slow burn' approach to attraction over instant chemistry. Logan also emphasizes the struggles faced by Gen Z in dating and the need for open conversations. Listeners learn the value of self-awareness and vulnerability in fostering genuine connections, making for a transformative conversation on modern romance.
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Quick takeaways

  • Modern dating frustrations stem from common challenges, which can be addressed by shifting your mindset and behavior towards dating.
  • To succeed in online dating, individuals must strategically reassess their profiles and focus on fostering genuine connections.

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Reevaluating Modern Dating

Modern dating is often perceived as broken, leaving many feeling discouraged. A significant contributor to this frustration is the feeling of endless disappointment and unsuccessful attempts in finding a match. As such, a shift in mindset towards dating is essential, wherein one understands that the challenges faced are common and can be addressed through specific behavioral changes. Recognizing that one is not alone in this experience can open pathways to a healthier approach to dating.

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