

The Love Expert: Why Women Are Addicted To F**k Boys & Why You Should "Have A 'Boring' Relationship Instead!" Logan Ury
810 snips Oct 26, 2023
Logan Ury, a behavioral scientist and dating coach at Hinge, discusses the science behind romance and why many are drawn to 'f**k boys.' She emphasizes the importance of recognizing attachment styles and suggests that securely attached individuals might appear boring but are actually the heroes of the dating world. Logan dives into concepts like the negativity bias in dating and the 'secretary problem' for decision-making in relationships. She also explores the rise of sober dating among Gen Z and how vulnerability can deepen emotional connections.
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Attachment Theory
- Attachment theory explains how childhood experiences influence adult relationships.
- Anxious, avoidant, and secure attachment styles create predictable relationship patterns.
Logan's Dating Coach
- Logan Ury hired a dating coach after a painful breakup with an avoidant man.
- This led her to realize her own anxious attachment and recognize a secure partner at work.
Avoidant Attachment
- Avoidant attached individuals subconsciously create reasons to avoid intimacy.
- They prioritize independence and fear being smothered, often pushing partners away.