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The Love Expert: Why Women Are Addicted To F**k Boys & Why You Should "Have A 'Boring' Relationship Instead!" Logan Ury

Oct 26, 2023
Steven Bartlett sits down with dating coach and behavioural scientist, Logan Ury. They discuss topics, such as modern dating, attachment theory, changing dating patterns, and the maths of choosing a partner. They also delve into digital body language, the importance of emotional vulnerability, and the trend towards authenticity on social media. The speaker reflects on their own dating experience, emphasizes the value of fundamental qualities in a relationship, and provides tips for creating an engaging Hinge profile. They also discuss the concept of great sex and recommend the guest's book.
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  • Recognize attachment styles and work towards developing more secure attachments.
  • Utilize the Secretary Problem approach to determine when to stop searching for the perfect partner.

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In this podcast episode, the speaker discusses the concept of the anxious avoidant loop in relationships. They explain how people with anxious attachment styles often seek reassurance and closeness, while those with avoidant attachment styles tend to fear intimacy and push people away. The speaker emphasizes the importance of recognizing these patterns and working towards more secure attachment styles. Strategies for anxious attached individuals include distracting oneself, texting someone else for support, and challenging negative thoughts and assumptions.

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