

How to make dating not suck (w/ Logan Ury)
75 snips Dec 2, 2024
In this insightful conversation, Logan Ury, a behavioral scientist and dating coach at Hinge, shares her expertise on finding love intentionally. She emphasizes the importance of viewing dating as a skill to develop, offering actionable tips on meeting people and navigating first dates. Logan discusses 'dating blind spots' and how tech influences modern dating dynamics. With insights applicable to any age, her practical advice aims to help listeners build fulfilling long-term relationships. Her book, 'How to Not Die Alone,' is a must-read for those seeking connection.
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Modern Dating is New
- Modern dating is relatively new; marriage wasn't about love for most of history.
- Dating apps add another layer of complexity to this already evolving landscape.
Logan Ury's Love Story
- Logan Ury met her husband in college, but they didn't start dating until seven years later.
- They reconnected at Google, where he tutored her in the programming language R, which they now call their "love language".
Dating is Hard, But Worth It
- Acknowledge dating is challenging and vulnerable, especially with potential rejection.
- Remember that finding a partner can be worthwhile despite the difficulties.